Remember falling in love makes you do crazy things like;

Becoming jealous which leads to stalking, which leads to anger and feelings hurt for the weak hobbyist.

On the other side of crazy is spending way too much money trying to get her to fall in love with you. I believe many hobbyist fall in this category here:)

There is no room for falling in love in this hobby in my opinion.

This is a hobby that you should be able to take it or leave it.

This hobby should allow you to act out a fantasy that you can’t get at home. Where you can just get after it without all the preliminaries of trying to get where you want.

Remember, providers are here to make money and hobbyist are here to pay and play.

IMO

Have a great Thanksgiving :)