I will respond to a reference request only and if only the hobbyist asks me first.

I repeat: if you want me to respond to your reference request, you have to message me beforehand.

It's just a good general rule of thumb but in my case, I have post concussive syndrome and I specifically struggle with recollection. As a result, the chances of me remembering who you are just by username are slim. But if you reach out to me here where we have a message history, that allows me to jog my memory.

Also! If you saw me last year under my old account before I left the site, I cannot offer you a reference under Brianne Banks as our session happened at least 6 months ago.