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I hear that my people skills are on point. I am a over thinker and I love helping people pinpoint things they may not have thought of. I also love when someone does the same for me.
It is real work, and it is serious work. Not all of us are these "anything goes party girls". I would expect if I ever let someone in my little bubble that he consider it a profession. To be taken seriously.
As Chloe said about a guy she dated always joking and laughing about her profession, not cool. Maybe it was his way of coping with her with his gf being a adult entertainer. Either way, it was always on his mind.
And I hope to find my Mister while I still have things in the right place. Clock is ticking. But I'm so damn picky these days that I'm scaring myself.
I'll never nor should I be sorry for what I've done every night when I get home. One day when this is a memory I'll remember that these guys helped me build my dreams and shaped me into the strong ambitious woman that I am. I'll forever be grateful!!!
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I know you were being facetious but that's what many of these girls are trying to say. Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not picking on you so much as I'm using your post as a springboard to this discussion.If my girlfriend/SO was that into sex I probably wouldn't be here
They are not likely any more *into it* than your girlfriend. The deal is they have decided to turn it into a commodity instead of what your "typical girlfriend" is doing and so they take payment in return for sexual acts.
That is *NOT* to say that many of the women here don't have men in their lives which are special to them and those men don't ever pay and they are great friends beyond simply sex too. Trust me, I know. And, again, remember these are still just women.
One of my favorite lines from a movie called "Notting Hill" is very apropos here. Julia Roberts is a famous movie star in love with Hugh Grant, a small bookstore owner, and he has the idea (as many of us commonly have) that she isn't like real people, not like him. He thinks they can't be together b/c she is a magical celebrity who isn't like a typical & regular human.
She reminds him with one beautifully eloquent line, "You know, the fame thing isn't really real. After all, I'm just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her....". I love that line. So powerful, so poetic, and yet so simple. Just beautiful. Gives me goosebumps when I watch it.
Anyway, the point is, like I said earlier, these are still just girls (women). They have needs and desires and feelings just like any other woman. It just so happens they do a very different kind of work than many typical girlfriend's or SOs.
Does that mean they don't have fun having sex? Sure they do. Even when they get paid sometimes. However, yes, many times they don't like it and have to fake it. The good ones fake it really well. The bad ones, or often inexperienced younger ones, are the ones that get raked over the coals in bad reviews b/c they can't truly fake a good IOP when they don't like the guy, there's no chemistry, etc.... They usually are the ones that end up with a crap review here and there with dudes complaining.
This is also a good reason I always say screening, in both directions, even trying to see if you can establish some baseline rapport, playfulness, or anything indicating there could be some chemistry is super important. If you can't do those simple things in text or voice or PM or email then how in the hell do you expect to be able to enter a room with someone you don't know, take your clothes off, and fuck them?? Hmm?? Sometimes it can go well. Sure. The sun shines even on a dog's ass every now & again. Got lucky. You happened to have some attraction. Personally I don't wanna see any girl who can't speak or message without stumbling over her own foot, getting irritated, mad, or making a fool of herself, no matter how gorgeous she looks. I would think many women feel the same in reverse. Maybe not super young or inexperienced girls, but definitely the more experienced women.
After all, could you honestly have sex, and have fun, truly be having a good time, with ANY woman that passed you by? YOU don't get to pick her (stop dreaming lol). No no. She picks you. Could you? Do you think the ones that pick you (i.e. pay you) are *ALL* going to "do it for you"? No way. Not even close.
Even if they did do it for you sexually that's not the same as being with someone you have a more personal connection with, a solid rapport, common interests, someone you *want* to be with (someone YOU picked or I guess we should say you mutually pick each other) and share your time with, talking, laughing, etc... over common interests. Those are two separate things.
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-MG
I am just gonna stop you there, MG. It is generalizing like that which fucks these threads over so much.
This morning I got a text out of the blue...didn't recognize number but after a few texts found out it was a provider I know. She was having a bad day and we agreed to meet. She was into it. Because even though she was capitalizing on it she was also wanting it. There are a number of ladies like that which is why it is sooooooooo dangerous to generalize. They all appreciate the financial aspect, but many also appreciate the intellectual, social, and/or physical aspect. Those ladies are solid gold, and why I would NEVER exclude a provider as a potential SO.
Ohh.... yea that's what I was saying Ben ;) Not sure if you read the whole thing yet? It's a long post, I know, but yep that's a big part of the whole point.
That does happen. Those are really great encounters too. There are both kinds; good & bad. These women don't get to choose though. That was one of the main points but also that they are still women, just like any other woman, have needs and feelings, and sure sometimes they truly enjoy it. But not all guys they meet are going to be someone they like, or are attracted to, or they aren't nice to them, and so on. Absolutely it does happen that they enjoy their time. Oh sure. But it also happens a lot that they don't at all and have to fake everything (not just the sex part either - the whole thing).
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-MG
I definitely read your entire posts, but I also know from experience that key points get lost in long posts...
None of us get to choose. You go in based on posts, maybe some PMs or texts/emails or a short verification call. And the it's all up to the folks when they get BCD. Faking comes into play at times, but if folks are careful at how they research/screen they should have mostly positive experiences. Of course, then there are those GREAT experiences which are based on chemistry and commonality of experiences...THAT is the big unknown.
You know, you two could just cut out the middle man and stop having these late night chats with each other on the board, and just meet face to face ;)
Somebody on this board has some serious pent up sexual frustration....
HahahahOh, Chloe.... such the joker.
You know with lesser men who were not completely comfortable in their sexuality (well that and minus the large cock, and the know how to use it, which routinely causes women to cream uncontrollably
) you might hurt some feelings a wee bit
Teasing ya hun. I know you're harmlessly jesting. No worries ;P
-MG
I know. I am hilarious. Ben's getting all mad and stuff, lol.Hahahah
Teasing ya hun. I know you're harmlessly jesting. No worries ;P
This thread has gotten to like 20 pages. Crazy.
And with that being said, there have been like 3 threads lately all about relationships. Have people just been stuck inside for way too long or what?
ikr & this one has 8k views. wth!
“don’t be dumb/blind, in your ear like a radio”
No anger here.
I do think everybody having their routines upended for months has made people start reflecting more. Not just about relationships. But once you're spending more time than normal with someone you have the opportunity to see who they really are, good and bad. I suspect once courts around the country are fully operational there will be a spike in divorces being filed. Probably a spike in births early next year too.
As for the number of views EBJ notes relationship threads have more value to members here than most topics. Sure, it is helpful to know who is looking to book in your area on a given day etc but those result in ephemeral moments in our lives. Relationships, even those that don't last, require a lot of personal investment of time and money. Nobody likes a disappointing session, but there isn't the great sense of loss that comes with the end of a relationship. It is understandable that many will be interested in reading what does and doesn't work for others; utilizing that knowledge may help them yield better results in their own life, or at least avoid pitfalls. I know I have benefitted from reading the perspectives of others in these threads.
That's too bad. I was hoping you were gonna have to spank me.
The only thing that sucks is not being able to be totally honest here. I have been able to say a lot more than I normally would, since I am not on the market and haven't been for a while, and I have a suspicion that we haven't seen more ladies chime in because business is their priority here. But even without having to worry about the business side of things, I still can't really be myself and say everything I want to. The very nature of this board creates a limiting atmosphere that stifles true open and honest discussion. I have tried to throw out some food for thought that might give some gents a different perspective, but we are never able to truly be ourselves here.
Guess I should have modified my earlier post that "many" are now reflecting; others clearly just continue to think about sex...
Be glad to put you across my knee and have your fantastic fanny in front of me...
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