Escort girlfriend

[Ebony Jasmine Love]

I just think there is no point to try to date a hobbyist who has a hobbyist mindset. We are paid and as a obligation we serve our clients.

Once you indulge him, he pays you, you will forever be thought of in that way.

Ben said 1 thing I completely agree with. First impressions last forever. If someone sees Anna Nikkole, they will always see her. And I am not her. It's a nice thought, get the escort to fall in love with you, get free sex and an open sex life. That's a general rundown.

Not for me. Even if the person is so great as our Mathguy, just say I get home from "work" and my supportive husband is waiting and being great to me. Treats me like a queen and adores me. I'll always know that he was in a session with me, not only does he know what I do, he was on the receiving end of it.

I wish I could be more open minded sexually but I'm possessive over mine. So y'all carry on with your swinging and gang bangs and orgies.

I know that I need to retire completely. I'll never be with someone I was bcd with.

I agree. The relationship dynamic would definitely starts off all wonky. However, I cant say I will always know what I’d do in every given situation.

Over all ‘it takes all kinds’, and Its nice to hear from the ones who say they have had, do, and will have an escort girlfriend.

I also like how ppl have been admitting they are possessive. All my life I have got so much shit from mates and ppl in general about being possessive. I feel like it wasn’t acceptable til Beyoncé said it in a song. It’s liberating to be vulnerable enough to say: “I am a possessive mate” full stop. Honestly I wouldn’t know if I am or not anymore. I have not dated anyone in several years, so rn being possessive about a SO seams like a big waste of energy.

Now where is the fun in that? As sexy as you are it would be a shame to not see you engage in FF action.

Well that was kind of you to say.

Aside from the excitement I get from knowing a voyeur is getting turned on by FF (while being generous for this delight of course, G4P!), FF stuff goes better in my fantasies than in real life. I (promise it’s me not them) find it lackluster.
I prefer to get passionately pounded tbqh.

P.S.

Hey! Didn’t I go off on you in the SA co-Ed forum once?
Idk the handle seems familiar. Of course no hard feelings.
I’m just curious bc I randomly thought about this incidence recently.

[mathguy]

Once you indulge him, he pays you, you will forever be thought of in that way.

Ben said 1 thing I completely agree with. First impressions last forever. If someone sees Anna Nikkole, they will always see her. And I am not her. It's a nice thought, get the escort to fall in love with you, get free sex and an open sex life. That's a general rundown.

Not for me. Even if the person is so great as our Mathguy, just say I get home from "work" and my supportive husband is waiting and being great to me. Treats me like a queen and adores me. I'll always know that he was in a session with me, not only does he know what I do, he was on the receiving end of it.

In general I'm in agreement to a certain extent.

For me the ones I mentioned dating didn't happen conventionally. One was a dancer and did some OTC play. A couple of years later we hooked up together but it was not pay for play, we just enjoyed spending time together as well as sex which was amazing.

The other, whom is still a provider here, I didn't ever ever see in a paid way. And if she even thought I was seeing people "on the side" or *especially* paying someone for it boy I'd have hell to pay. I didn't see anyone but she thought it once or twice and it caused a big argument.

I think the issue Anna mentions about "only seeing them in a certain way" goes both ways though.

Unfortunately, for many men it means only seeing a girl as a paid escort. The same is true in reverse sadly. The women, especially those who really don't like it, are too young, felt forced into it (self imposed forcing: to pay bills, take care of family, etc), and so on, end up only seeing men as a means to be paid for sex and the idea of sex without money OR a relationship (remember, those are both different things) just becomes non-existent. Quite sad. :/

I think it's extremely sad on both sides of the equation. Those are unfortunate aspects to the hobby world that play on my mind a lot.

For men it's due to a societal perspective (my hypothesis) that tells them this is wrong, good women don't do this, these are bad girls, broken, etc...

For women it's due to objectification by a great many men or bad experiences with many men over time OR compounding that with the former along with the issues of doing it at a *very* young age but being "disgusted" by it that men would want that from you, maybe even disgusted by yourself for doing it, but you needed the money, so "oh well, gotta do what ya gotta do".

I'm not saying that's every man or every woman, not at all, but it is a common theme that's very disconcerting :(

I'd like to find a solution to all of this, and I've thought long and hard about it too, but it needs to come from many sources. Changes to how men act, changes to societal views of sex/money, societal views of women, changes to safety for women (physical & legal), safety for men too (mostly legal), etc...

I wish I could be more open minded sexually but I'm possessive over mine. So y'all carry on with your swinging and gang bangs and orgies.

I agree. To be clear though when I mentioned having dated a couple providers I was not (am not) a poly person, not into swinging, orgies, etc.... Not at all. I was exclusive to those women. Totally.

[richard fitzwell]

I agree. The relationship dynamic would definitely starts off all wonky. However, I cant say I will always know what I’d do in every given situation.

Over all ‘it takes all kinds’, and Its nice to hear from the ones who say they have had, do, and will have an escort girlfriend.

I also like how ppl have been admitting they are possessive. All my life I have got so much shit from mates and ppl in general about being possessive. I feel like it wasn’t acceptable til Beyoncé said it in a song. It’s liberating to be vulnerable enough to say: “I am a possessive mate” full stop. Honestly I wouldn’t know if I am or not anymore. I have not dated anyone in several years, so rn being possessive about a SO seams like a big waste of energy.




Well that was kind of you to say.

Aside from the excitement I get from knowing a voyeur is getting turned on by FF (while being generous for this delight of course, G4P!), FF stuff goes better in my fantasies than in real life. I (promise it’s me not them) find it lackluster.
I prefer to get passionately pounded tbqh.

P.S.

Hey! Didn’t I go off on you in the SA co-Ed forum once?
Idk the handle seems familiar. Of course no hard feelings.
I’m just curious bc I randomly thought about this incidence recently.

I like to pound and it turns me know to see her head going deeper into the muff with my every thrust.

and to your P.S. no not that I recall. I don't post in S.A. because I never go there with out family. I could be wrong though...we may have to sort this out face to face.

[Ben Rhimene]

I like to pound and it turns me know to see her head going deeper into the muff with my every thrust.

and to your P.S. no not that I recall. I don't post in S.A. because I never go there with out family. I could be wrong though...we may have to sort this out face to face.

WTF??? Less phone posting please.

[Preggolover89]

I just think there is no point to try to date a hobbyist who has a hobbyist mindset. We are paid and as a obligation we serve our clients.

Once you indulge him, he pays you, you will forever be thought of in that way.

Ben said 1 thing I completely agree with. First impressions last forever. If someone sees Anna Nikkole, they will always see her. And I am not her. It's a nice thought, get the escort to fall in love with you, get free sex and an open sex life. That's a general rundown.

Not for me. Even if the person is so great as our Mathguy, just say I get home from "work" and my supportive husband is waiting and being great to me. Treats me like a queen and adores me. I'll always know that he was in a session with me, not only does he know what I do, he was on the receiving end of it.

I wish I could be more open minded sexually but I'm possessive over mine. So y'all carry on with your swinging and gang bangs and orgies.

I know that I need to retire completely. I'll never be with someone I was bcd with.

I agree. The relationship dynamic would definitely starts off all wonky. However, I cant say I will always know what I’d do in every given situation.

Over all ‘it takes all kinds’, and Its nice to hear from the ones who say they have had, do, and will have an escort girlfriend.

I also like how ppl have been admitting they are possessive. All my life I have got so much shit from mates and ppl in general about being possessive. I feel like it wasn’t acceptable til Beyoncé said it in a song. It’s liberating to be vulnerable enough to say: “I am a possessive mate” full stop. Honestly I wouldn’t know if I am or not anymore. I have not dated anyone in several years, so rn being possessive about a SO seams like a big waste of energy.


Well that was kind of you to say.

Aside from the excitement I get from knowing a voyeur is getting turned on by FF (while being generous for this delight of course, G4P!), FF stuff goes better in my fantasies than in real life. I (promise it’s me not them) find it lackluster.
I prefer to get passionately pounded tbqh.

P.S.

Hey! Didn’t I go off on you in the SA co-Ed forum once?
Idk the handle seems familiar. Of course no hard feelings.
I’m just curious bc I randomly thought about this incidence recently.

I think it's totally ok (better than ok - kudos to you for knowing yourself) to say "I'm a possessive mate - we need 100% commitment sexually". Just don't expect that being a provider is somehow exempt from that because you get money for it.

[chloevankatie]

I think it's totally ok (better than ok - kudos to you for knowing yourself) to say "I'm a possessive mate - we need 100% commitment sexually". Just don't expect that being a provider is somehow exempt from that because you get money for it.

As noted in this link, you have an interesting posting history, Preggolover89. It seems that your main goal when it comes to forum contributions mainly consist of stirring the pot. I believe there may be a common epithet for such posting patterns.

https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...l=1#post774234

[Anna Nikkole]

I think it's totally ok (better than ok - kudos to you for knowing yourself) to say "I'm a possessive mate - we need 100% commitment sexually". Just don't expect that being a provider is somehow exempt from that because you get money for it.

I'll find my unicorn because I believe I'm a unicorn myself

[Ebony Jasmine Love]

I think it's totally ok (better than ok - kudos to you for knowing yourself) to say "I'm a possessive mate - we need 100% commitment sexually". Just don't expect that being a provider is somehow exempt from that because you get money for it.

I don’t want to be exempt from a BF being possessive over me! I think it’s hot! (Ok not ID Channel possessive but like just lil social posturing which suggests to everyone: SHE’S MINE!)

Idk if that is what you meant, but that is how your post reads.

Personally, I wouldn’t mind if my SO hired escorts tbh.
As long as there is caring and fun I’d stay. When that goes I go.

[Preggolover89]

As noted in this link, you have an interesting posting history, Preggolover89. It seems that your main goal when it comes to forum contributions mainly consist of stirring the pot. I believe there may be a common epithet for such posting patterns.

https://home.ourhome2.net/showthread...l=1#post774234

lol the person who started a thread to bitch, is on the cock of the only person who agrees with her and everyone else is "only about sex", is calling me a troll? love it.

I'll find my unicorn because I believe I'm a unicorn myself

hell yeah!

I don’t want to be exempt from a BF being possessive over me! I think it’s hot! (Ok not ID Channel possessive but like just lil social posturing which suggests to everyone: SHE’S MINE!)

Idk if that is what you meant, but that is how your post reads.

Personally, I wouldn’t mind if my SO hired escorts tbh.
As long as there is caring and fun I’d stay. When that goes I go.

There you go - I personally care more about the caring and fun too.

[RunTheCourse]

Lol human behavior is SO complicated right!

Ugh.

You’re so right. I mean, what does “it worked out” even mean??!??!??

So many ways to dissect it.

For me it’s not oh we made it til we’re both 100 and it was perfect. My experiences have thought me that’s not always promised. For me it would be nice to get as many emotional, mental, and physical needs met for as long as we could with someone I truly adore, until it is time to part for whatever reason. Which we both come out of it better than when we began. As an escort, while it could be harder, finding this doesn’t to have to be so out reach bc I firmly believe everyone who desires/wants to give deeper intimacy can attain that. I think it really takes opening up your heart and mind to let that in when ready. It’s wild how when you do the offers flood in. Like you might be trying to manifest that focused in one direction and suddenly you’re hit with it from all directions.

^^^^ Maybe I'm naive but the reason I date escorts is because I believe the success rate is not much different than other dating when both parties are open and willing to sacrifice. TBH I had to be trained on how to date an escort because at the beginning of that journey I didn't realize that the women I had such a sexual connection with were actually two different people as CVK expressed; the woman that goes to work and the one that comes home. The second lesson was she may not to want to have sex as much as I as she analogized it to my profession..."Do you want to come home and and work on networks after you've worked on networks all day?"

In regular dating that happens also but the woman's job isn't providing so I had to ask myself if I was as open minded as I professed and am I as selfless as I would need to be since I agreed not to continue hobbying. As our sex waned we began to just talk, hangout, fall into a routine and build a regular relationship like regular people. Didn't make it to the alter but it became normalized and felt like any other dating relationship in which I've been involved.

[Ben Rhimene]

I don’t want to be exempt from a BF being possessive over me! I think it’s hot!

Personally, I wouldn’t mind if my SO hired escorts tbh.
As long as there is caring and fun I’d stay. When that goes I go.

Possessiveness runs both ways, and helps indicate a resl level of desire (or crazy...another topic!).

The other escort issue gets back to the other threads...it depends on where the relationship is, and that varies by each couple.

[Ebony Jasmine Love]

^^^^ Maybe I'm naive but the reason I date escorts is because I believe the success rate is not much different than other dating when both parties are open and willing to sacrifice. TBH I had to be trained on how to date an escort because at the beginning of that journey I didn't realize that the women I had such a sexual connection with were actually two different people as CVK expressed; the woman that goes to work and the one that comes home. The second lesson was she may not to want to have sex as much as I as she analogized it to my profession..."Do you want to come home and and work on networks after you've worked on networks all day?"

In regular dating that happens also but the woman's job isn't providing so I had to ask myself if I was as open minded as I professed and am I as selfless as I would need to be since I agreed not to continue hobbying. As our sex waned we began to just talk, hangout, fall into a routine and build a regular relationship like regular people. Didn't make it to the alter but it became normalized and felt like any other dating relationship in which I've been involved.

Nice reckon. I really enjoy all the takes.

Can I also say I am a horn dog. Not like Christina Ricci in Black Snake Moan kinda horn dog, but like a don’t-care-if-I’m-pissed-off-at-you-pouting-my-back-turned-covers-up-with-my-satin-bonnet-on-ready-to-go-to-bed... go ahead, start rubbing my ass and see what happens... we can work it out. Lol.

Seriously. That’s how I used to be tho. I had to remind myself to decline sex from my bf from time to time.

Anyway, questioning your open mindedness and selflessness is natural I guess.

“Regular relationships like regular ppl” was a big yikes for me. In context, does that mean sexless passionless all together? You’re almost lucky you didn’t get to the alter or you would sure be back in this mix. Hence why I don’t mind if my SO sees escorts from time to time. As long as im fulfilled, I’m happy for an escort to take over and give a lil spice. If I wasn’t getting sex as much as I want but all other aspects of the relationship satisfied me, I’d want to get some too. It’s only fair.

You know what I like to read even more than escorts shacking up...
posts on reddit and other forums where an SO from long time couples who say they have had great sex for decades. So fucking hot. I’m not familiar with all the love languages but if sex is one of them, that’s so important to me.

[Ebony Jasmine Love]

Possessiveness runs both ways, and helps indicate a resl level of desire (or crazy...another topic!).

The other escort issue gets back to the other threads...it depends on where the relationship is, and that varies by each couple.

Truuuuuuee.

One of my best guy friends reassured me “if you’re so possessive, it’s ok, you’ll just have to find someone who understands that”.

He even gave an example of his friend who has a possessive gf and how they’ve been together forever and he kinda likes that his girl is like that.

It was such and epiphany lol. Like oooooh why didn’t I think of that! Lol. Someone who accepts me for me!

[Captain.Classic]

I don’t want to be exempt from a BF being possessive over me! I think it’s hot! (Ok not ID Channel possessive but like just lil social posturing which suggests to everyone: SHE’S MINE!)

Idk if that is what you meant, but that is how your post reads.

Personally, I wouldn’t mind if my SO hired escorts tbh.
As long as there is caring and fun I’d stay. When that goes I go.

Jasmine, your last line hit the nail on the head, beautiful - once the caring and fun has gone away, it's no point in staying.

I'd humor an escort GF within reason. I know I'm VERY possessive lol but I'd appreciate the fact that we can determine the strings (or lack thereof) together. It might make for some fun shit since I'm not in a space to commit anyway currently haha.

[Ebony Jasmine Love]

Jasmine, your last line hit the nail on the head, beautiful - once the caring and fun has gone away, it's no point in staying.

I'd humor an escort GF within reason. I know I'm VERY possessive lol but I'd appreciate the fact that we can determine the strings (or lack thereof) together. It might make for some fun shit since I'm not in a space to commit anyway currently haha.

Not humor! Humor???

I hope it’s funny enough to pay the tab and some bills too!!

(giving you a hard time ;))

Seriously tho...

AND SOME BAECATIONS DAMN IT!