Quote Originally Posted by jamesd236 View Post
YES! Especially the first time! I am shy as well so I know how it feels to feel awkward the first time you are with someone. I know there are fellas on this site that will love to help her break out of her shell a little bit but let's be honest, there are bad people everywhere and I expect and practice caution EVERY TIME I meet someone new, so there isn't anything wrong with that... It is possible that maybe when she meets a guy for the first time she has a little 10 minute chat session, for the fellas that are willing, off the clock to help her feel at ease.... There is no exact way to do this where everyone feels the same way, we might try offering some non traditional suggestions rather than just expecting her to get on board or find a new career path.
THIS!