1. As most have mentioned, the GFE experience. PSE is cool, but I'm not married and don't currently have a GF. So, I look for a lady with good IOP that can at least make me feel like I'm her man for the time that I'm with her. Lots of kissing, cuddling, etc. I also like a non-rushed session with time to get to know a lady if its our 1st time together.

2. CBJ is a dealbreaker for me. No kissing is a dealbreaker for me. I'm booking with a lady that is attractive, has good reviews, good IOP, and good TCB skills. You'd be surprised how many ladies lack TCB skills.

3. I don't know if SS is necessarily a fetish but it's something I like and I don't knock ladies who don't offer it. But ladies who do offer it will typically be booked by me much faster than someone who doesn't.