That OP message was too much to read. I need a pic or cliff notes version. Sounds like he is looking for a girlfriend or wife. They just want your money.

But my comment on the thread title: I'm paying a chick to be clean and fun. As long as I can stick my tongue up into all her holes and wiggle it around, then fuck and get a nut, I'm a happy camper. I'm not paying for her to feel good, but if she does, it's to her advantage. Just don't rush me. Please me. Do me good. Make me feel good.