Sorry it took me awhile to respond. I have really good instincts about people. I have done several meets, all has worked out. I have turned some gents down. the key though is to not discuss anything sexual. It is not illegal to meet someone for lunch or dinner or coffee and get paid for it. I don't discuss sexual acts between us. I guess that is the key. I try to make everyone comfortable. I don't know if that clears things up a bit or not. I guess i just know how to talk to people. I also get a sense of if we are going to be a good fit or not. Like i said, i have turned a few gents away. I have been doing it for 4 years now. I don't think the meet and greet is for everyone but it works for me. We all have different ways of screening and that is just one of mine. Like I said it works for me. It also helps that I have a degree in Psychology.