I'm truly sorry to hear that. If you've exhausted all the dating sites (there's so many now) you could think about joining clubs with a common interest. Hang out at places you like and strike up convo with unattached ladies, especially the club scene. Get set up by trusted friends. It's easy to say quit the hobby cold turkey, but you could definitely limit your exposure. I have a hobby friend who is the opposite. He has no interest in a relationship but hobbies his ass off. He truly enjoys the variety.