DATY- what?s not to like?!

[WorkinWithWood]

When entering into a romantic liaison, I automatically assume a bj will be forthcoming in the least. So why can?t I assume that DATY is just as anticipated? I understand there is a wide range of talent in this realm(I?ve seen the vids), but to advertise no DATY means something has gone terribly wrong before and the provider wishes not to relive it. Why would a sweet and accommodating gal not want me to go muff-diving?

[Deja Tha Doll]

Me personally. I've been so horny lately, I've been able to orgasm within 5min. I LOVE a talented tongue

Not everyone has one of course. But my favorite past time is laying back and making a mess on a guy's tongue, lips and face
My ATFs can certainly attest to my deliciousness, as well as that "tell tale thing that I do", right after I cum
This Goddess never skips leg day either, so once in a while, I'll even get on top and ride their hungry face and tongue til I reach orgasmic bliss and start filling the room with my moans of ecstacy.

But some people tend to get more aggressive than needed or perhaps they use too much spit, or maybe they lack stamina and their tongue gets tired easy and right before you feel those waves of passion start to brink, they stop and switch positions and lap away elsewhere....

I'm not a fan of using fingers inside of me for safety reasons. Ragged fingernails can cause injury, and internal cuts and dirty fingernails can cause infections such as BV.
Which brings me to my next statement. Women have to wise enough and discrete enough to keep the vibes right, at all times, and intuit enough to be able to scoop out things before the tempo in the room picks up. Some guys try to go from 0-100 as soon as they walk in. But as women, you have to grab the reigns and set the pace, for your own safety.
Some guys try to hide imperfections they may have.
Whether it be keeping on their socks, hiding their belly, covering open wounds, (some even try to deny the noticeable presence of other things such as bumps, scabs or warts smh, which I think if some womem were under the influence or maybe in a dimly lit room, they may not notice or realize that it's there, let alone know how to bring up the issue in a tackful manner and still keep the mood right)....but the ONE thing that's hard to see alot of times unless it's SO bad, it's obvious, is a guys oral hygiene.....

Some guys you can tell, never properly clean themselves DAILY...
So even if they've just scrubbed up in the shower, a lady can STILL smell the smegma that you let ferment on you for days upon days leading up to your date. That smell fucking LINGERS.
Now if I go to drink out of a cup that seems clean but still smells, I'm going to be convinced it's not clean and I'm going to pass on drinking out of it. Personally......��*♀️that's just me, of course...

But a few times I've definitely noticed a guy has a wall of plaque built up on his teeth so high, that I have straight up refused any oral options with him, and that includes letting him get his fill of deliciousness at my buffet.

I didn't want to explain to him why I denied him my goods, because I didn't want to hurt his feelings or make things awkward. Or worse case scenario, have him get angry and upset with me. I truly hate drama and try to avoid confrontation.
But some people are adamant and grill you til the vibe is gone/ruined and awkwardness ensues.

I've even noticed on an occasion, a guy talking weird once, and upon closer inspection, I seen he was trying to hide his rotting tooth up front.��...
Kissing someone with bad oral hygiene can pass bad bacteria into your mouth and give you, the female, issues and cavities as well.
And we all know getting cavities fixed can be quite expensive, and many folks lack a good insurance plan these days.
So allowing someone with bad oral hygiene to dine on your delicacies and ladybits, can also cause other issues such as BV or a yeast infection.
BV can be passed back to your male counterparts privates and lie dormant, as they unknowingly keep passing it back to you, or others. The same with yeast, and thrush.
Treating BV and yeast infections requires taking time off, and missing out on all of the fun.
Who wants to do miss out on all of that?

So perhaps to avoid all of that unnecessary pain, grief, awkwardness, and pesky side effects from a week of antibiotics, some women choose to not even deal with it and don't allow men the pleasure of dining in, who knows.....

Me personally, my buffet is always open
(unless of course, you're exhibiting those steer clear signs to me, that I just mentioned) !!! Screenshot_20241114_112633_Gallery.jpg

[Sue Nami]

as a provider who offers no DATY I can say why I don't. because all guys do it wrong AF it takes too long to train a guy to do me right and most fellas approach u like a buzz saw on the clit right off the bat. I like oral but only with my boyfriend who I have trained to do me EXACTLY how I want it. My clit is far too sensitive to let random guys go full throttle on it. I need to come 10 times or more first with my gspot before my clit is even on the menu and then it is soft flat tongue, no moving it or flicking it, just lay your tongue on it flat and soft and hold it still till the clit get used to it and then I need a finger on the gspot to even get to that level of calmness and ability to take clitoral stimulation. dudes assume all girls like their pussy eaten the same way and I hate that way. no guy ever ate my pussy right till I trained him and taught him to not focus on the clit at all at the beginning. I do love pussy eating now but only with my well trained boyfriend who does it right. I never offered daty in the hobby even once because I just do not have the patience to school every guy how to do me right. Every woman likes it different and most guys approach a pussy like voracious starving agitated beaver gnawing on a tree.

[Deja Tha Doll]

I don't know if it's because I'm in my PRIME and I know exactly what I want and like, but I can easily and vocally direct a guy to lick it, like I like it

I personally enjoy light to medium sucking and licking on my clit *ONLY.
My naughty imagination helps of course. I imagine all types of naughty scenarios as I play with my clit and whenever I allow others to lap away at it, as well.

It use to take me a LONGGG time to orgasm. But now I can come anywhere from 5-10min of oral. If it's just me and my right hand bihh Palm-a-la, I can cum in less than 2 min.
I know because I like to film it and re-watch it (and of course share it with my fans!) But i try to beat my last time score from before, EVERY time, because CHALLENGE ACCEPTED, that's why
It just makes me feel more in tune with myself, seeing how I know what I like and what i want and I DAMN SURE know how to express it, as well
It just proves to myself that I'm getting better and more skilled at delivering and executing skilled succession on my harmonic instrument whenever I go to play it

Guys who don't learn from vocal instruction or keep moving away from the actual clit, can be easily re-directed with a soft nudge back into position or if I see them getting tired, I just switch to letting them relax as I enjoy them and their deliciousness.

I can also add and insert my n-joy metal wand that hits my g-spot as they suck, lick and kiss my clit for an added sensation, and a guarantee to a heavenly finish for myself.

It probably helps that I deny myself the pleasures of engaging in fun and activities outside of the hobby. It's almost as if I can turn off my thoughts and just let the animalistic depravity take over in a session and allow myself to just give in and recieve all of the excitement and pleasure that I crave when I'm BCD with someone.

I feel like if I was ALWAYS having sex, every SINGLE day, like i would be if i was in a relationship, sex might start to lose it's magnitude up to a point.

But knowing just how much I truly CRAVE and ENJOY it, that might not remain as much true for me, as it might to other folks.

You just gotta love a naughty nymph with an appetite, who enjoys feeding her deliciousness to hungry folks as well!!!

#VeganViXXXensTasteThaBest

I mean I consider myself a humanitarian in a way because I always try to help the less fortunate.
I'll even feed these hungry souls I encounter BCD if I can tell they skipped a meal a two, or just have that ravenous look in their eyes whenever they see me lol

I've even cooked for and delivered food and deliciousness to my regulars if they happen to reach out whenever I'm in the middle of whipping up some tastiness in my kitchen.

#DejaALWAYsDelivers

[Sue Nami]

yea everybody is different and I am all gspot and can come squirting 20-25 times for hours off my gspot. the clit is secondary. some women are clitoral and some women like me can squirt from gspot play for a long long time. My clit and nips are way down on the erogenous list and my gspot is queen. variety is the spice of life and while my clit is not a major player, the gspot is crazy big and makes me squirt profusely. I'll take my 20 gspot O's any day over a bad pussy eating.

[Deja Tha Doll]

I can squirt from clitoral stimulation from the vibrations of my Hitachi Wand.

And I can orgasm from having my g-spot stimulated by my metal n-joy wand, just not a squirting orgasm.

I can squirt whenever I'm on all 4s or sitting propped up, with my legs towards my chest, feet down, with the Hitachi wand on my clit.

The very first time that I squirted, was when I was on all 4s, camming with my face -only- in view of the cam, as requested, watching him stroke his stiff, throbbing cock for me!!!
Something about when a guy does that for me, really turns me on and gets me going and soaked silly!!!

When he finally came, I couldn't hold back and I immediately let go of this intense orgasmic wave.I instantly felt and seen the after effects of the mess I made after cumming and squirting all of my juices all over my self, thighs and bed. I also realized noone even got the chance to see this new, amazing thing I just experienced !!! Lol

I was shocked but moreso amazed at this new skill I unknowingly unlocked and unleashed onto my silky black bedsheets. Since then, I've only managed to squirt when using that Hitachi toy.

While camming I discovered I can come 6-8x in 3-4hours. And I'm able to have back to back orgasms.

But there's just something SO MUCH MORE intimate and overwhelmingly satisfying whenever you have a BLESSED and TALENTED tongue to lick you into an orgasmic oblivion that no fake ass toy can ever compete with, in my honest opinion.

I'd rather have real dick inside of me, any day, all day, not some toy or a finger.

And I prefer to cum on some lucky guys tongue if we're talking preferences.
Variety is INDEED the spice of life. So that's why I have a variety of tongues I try to keep satisfied and quenched out here lol
Sometimes I'll quench their thirst as I lie back and relax and others, I'll do it as I ride their face, sliding this juicy pussy up and down, back-n-forth, over their hungry, lips and tongue, til I'm satisfied and spent.

I just got this new toy called the Vagger that sucks AND licks the clit, as well as massages and vibrates against the g-spot.
That and the N-joy, are the ONLY insertable toys, that have ever made me cum via my g-spot.

I've had a guy make me cum, just by using those toys on my g-spot as he watched and sucked and rubbed all over me.

BUT I've never had an actual cock/finger/or tongue INSERTED into me, that has been enough to make me cum (from penetration solely.)
Not really trying to see if I can anymore at this point either since I don't allow fingers inside of me. So it's no biggie.

Just saying that those 2 toys are the only way I can come from g-spot stimulation. The men who did try with their fingers were always too rough or aggressive with it, so I always ended up stopping it lol.

But these toys, and their design honestly make it so much more comfortable and easier to achieve a g-spot inspired orgasm for me

There's definitely been some guys who I've encountered who need absolutely NO direction or tips whatsoever because they have the talent and the stamina to just go straight to licking and sucking on me and I'm cumming on their tongues within minutes!!!
Then at times, I like to spice up the licking and lapping because I'm craving the sensation of being filled vaginally as well, so I add in one of those toys and slowly stroke my g-spot with it. Because TEAMWORK MAKES THA DREAM WORK LOL !!!

(A quick glimpse into my naughty thoughts and fantasies )....
I'd honestly LOVE for a guy to be lapping away at pussy lips and clit as another cock slides in and out of me!!! And THEN if I were to be getting filled orally!!!!so that I can have my own thirst quenched, well shit!!!! that would be the MF icing on THA CAKE!!! But others might call that me just being greedy lol.....Tha more, Tha Merrier I always say!

I've used my toys on my g-spot while having a guy lick and suck on my precious petal and I proceeded to explode in waves of pleasure and bliss filling the room and his mouth with my moans of ecstacy!!!

But the main way I orgasm, and what I personally PREFER, is for someone to be sucking and kissing on my clit. Licking it softly, then slowly increasing the pace and pressure just a bit as my thighs tense up, and I bite and lick my lips in anticipation

[WorkinWithWood]

Thank you, ladies, for your candid responses! They are enlightening and entertaining!

Sue, I never realized that “the button” is not a universal thrill zone. I have been instructed by many to press that button and KEEP PRESSING THAT BUTTON”! Not that that is my methodology from get, but generally my final destination in order to get the moaning, hands-on-my-head hip thrust that I so long to foster. Yes, I would use my fingers in conjunction, if allowed, but fiv is allowed even less than daty. Is fov just as “risky”? Retraining a said aficionado for the 15 minutes of practice seems like a giant waste of time, seeing as how they may be a one and done type of client. And some of us may be really hard to train! Nah!

Deja, you get me all hot and bothered with your talky words! I do appreciate the hygienic aspect to this. I would like to go head-to-head with you and see how I stack up. It has been more difficult than expected to find a hostess who will open her table for unlimited noshing. I’ve been told I do a good job, but then I have also been interrupted mid-nosh, which can signal that it is not up to snuff. But, mid-romp, explanations are not forthcoming so as to not spoil the session.

And since y’all both brought it up: do you get incredibly dehydrated if you squirt a lot? Does the squirting diminish with each subsequent gush? I am sorry to say that I have never experienced this nor known any girl who squirts so I could ask them.

Thank you!!

[Deja Tha Doll]

Fingers teasing and rubbing my clit are fine as long as long as the fingernails are clean and definitely not jagged or long.

As for the squirting question, I stay pretty hydrated from eating lots of fruit and consuming coconut water, before and during my activities.
I'm certain that it definitely helps. I honestly would probably not be able to do EITHER if I was dehydrated.
(Eating edibles or smoking beforehand can definitely dehydrate you as well, so it's always good to keep that in mind, and prepare for that outcome if you choose to do so).

But I find the same to be also true of men. That whenever men are hot or dehydrated, they have a difficult time getting, and staying hard, not to mention cumming....

When I cam, I like to take short breaks in between cumming, to clean up and rehydrate myself as well as eat some fruit.

Also just an FYI, if you drink alcohol, coffee, or you just flat out do not consume any, or enough water, that will definitely impact your ability to cum and perform as well.
So guys, please remember to stay hydrated and/or bring something to drink with you, if you plan on having a GREAT workout, whenever you decide to visit your "personal trainer "

[Birdieman]

Ok, I think I got it. No hard and crusty feet rubs (from a previous post) watch the Smegma, no plaque on teeth, and stay hydrated for performance. After you get the all clear, maybe Daty is accepted if you’re willing to be trained.

[baja22]

as a provider who offers no DATY I can say why I don't. because all guys do it wrong AF it takes too long to train a guy to do me right and most fellas approach u like a buzz saw on the clit right off the bat. I like oral but only with my boyfriend who I have trained to do me EXACTLY how I want it. My clit is far too sensitive to let random guys go full throttle on it. I need to come 10 times or more first with my gspot before my clit is even on the menu and then it is soft flat tongue, no moving it or flicking it, just lay your tongue on it flat and soft and hold it still till the clit get used to it and then I need a finger on the gspot to even get to that level of calmness and ability to take clitoral stimulation. dudes assume all girls like their pussy eaten the same way and I hate that way. no guy ever ate my pussy right till I trained him and taught him to not focus on the clit at all at the beginning. I do love pussy eating now but only with my well trained boyfriend who does it right. I never offered daty in the hobby even once because I just do not have the patience to school every guy how to do me right. Every woman likes it different and most guys approach a pussy like voracious starving agitated beaver gnawing on a tree.

Women make the same mistake with men. A lot of us older guys don't like the dick attacked out of the gate. Dry stroking/manhandling can be uncomfortable. It's tough to beat gentle fondling at first, and bjs should always start with teasing and not immediately attacked with teeth and overzealous head movement with no real suction. Basically, dicks and clits should be treated the same!

[SexySammy]

Ok, I think I got it. No hard and crusty feet rubs (from a previous post) watch the Smegma, no plaque on teeth, and stay hydrated for performance. After you get the all clear, maybe Daty is accepted if you?re willing to be trained.

See the good ones take notes and remember lol

But yeah like everyone has already mentioned it's because our bodies are very sensitive temples. Anything slightly off and our bodies are going to react with infections. Dirty nails, dirty mouths, the whole shebang. There's only a select few allowed to use their fingers on me and it's also because they don't finger bang me like we're teenagers at a movie. NOBODY misses or enjoys you ramming your dry ass fingers and trying to fit as many as you can as quickly as you can into their twats. I'm definitely one of the outer stimulation gals, takes more time than it did before I had a kid but that's also why I prefer the gents willing to put in the time and work to get me there :) those whole body orgasmic twitches are the best. I prefer the built up teasing/edging and building up to several good finishes. I'm just not as good with words and teaching folks. I honestly prefer the not knowing what to expect aspect, it adds to the excitement. If I told/taught everyone the same thing, it would inevitably get boring in my mind, just like vanilla relationship sex where you get used to doing the same thing all the time.

[Amy Adams]

Women make the same mistake with men. A lot of us older guys don't like the dick attacked out of the gate. Dry stroking/manhandling can be uncomfortable. It's tough to beat gentle fondling at first, and bjs should always start with teasing and not immediately attacked with teeth and overzealous head movement with no real suction. Basically, dicks and clits should be treated the same!

Like delicate flowers. Soft, slow and gentle whilst working up to a steady pace. Just treat her anatomy as you would your own!

[WorkinWithWood]

I agree with Baja, I like to be treated as if you are coaxing a chipmunk out of a hole, like flashing sumptuous morsels and slow easy movements, light petting. Once we establish that we are going to be friends, game on! I use the same approach on the ladies, the flashing of sumptuous morsels generally lacking but for maybe offerings left on the dresser.

My motto for you ladies is: unless it is wet, it ain?t ready yet.