When entering into a romantic liaison, I automatically assume a bj will be forthcoming in the least. So why can?t I assume that DATY is just as anticipated? I understand there is a wide range of talent in this realm(I?ve seen the vids), but to advertise no DATY means something has gone terribly wrong before and the provider wishes not to relive it. Why would a sweet and accommodating gal not want me to go muff-diving?