Mea Culpa Mea Maxina Culpa

[privacyxyz2]

I need to get this off my chest. I was chatting with a very engaging young lady and looking to schedule a meetup. It was a very friendly and illuminative banter. I started asking for a brief voice call. Not to inquire about services for money, this is not my first rodeo. I find that hearing each other's voices can break the ice, there's less chance of being misinterpreted that can come with text, and it can pave the way for a good date. She, however, took it to be an attempt at entrapment, got turned off and ended the conversation. .

The LAST thing I want is for someone to be uncomfortable here. Some ladies are cool with a call, some are not. Entirely their choice. I respect her decision to take the pitch. I did want to clear things up, though. Again my apologies.

And please do not dm me, she shall remain nameless. She knows who she is.

Namaste to the Hobby-verse!
-p

[baja22]

I don't blame her. I personally hate talking on the phone. I'd rather text any day, like a lot of younger people, even though I'm old lol. If you've never met, you can get to know each other in person. It's not like it's a real date, anyway.

[Adonisman]

Never had one single issue before text was the preferred method. I used to love to call the Provider. Do a short 5 min call. Then have a very nice date.

I have now employed this method for sugar dating. Helps weed out scams and flakes.

[Birdieman]

The whole call her up seems like an attempt to manipulate things to gain favor. Only language that needs to be spoken is texts and dinero. Sounds creepy.

[SexySammy]

I don't even like phone calls in the RW lol I prefer to type and think my responses through. My mouth/anxiety can make me ramble at times and misspeak so better if I can see and read my thoughts a couple times first lol

[dodger]

Not to disagree with others but voice can also be a defense against being catfished. There are other ways such as dealing with established providers or clients. But not everyone does that.

[knottyman]

There's a term for men who love to talk.
They're called WOMEN!