When it comes to certain providers !

[MDG's]

Is there a reason why lately more and more providers are refusing to vouch when it comes to certain CL . I personally always respond in a timely manner and vouch & the reason I do it is to keep everyone safe or to inform you of what issues I have had with a certain CL . Is there a reason why some of aren?t vouching? I have reached out to a few and I will get a response if I ask if this is so and so and they will say yes . But when I ask for a reference check I get crickets or I have had certain ones say I don?t give out any vouch . Ladies how are we supposed to keep each other safe if some of you are acting this way . Am I missing something?

[ThickVeronica]

I am having the same problem.. 🙄

[MDG's]

It sux for the CL .

[9dawg9]

Yes it does. Thanks for working for us MDG

[Italia]

No, seriously it just irks me that some females do this. Like they're quick to respond when they assume they're getting text from potential but once they find out I am looking for vouch/reference check it's ghost. I always inform the gent of the lady whom doesn't verify and how it's not wise to continue to see them since they don't really like to participate to keep the community safe. They either don't vouch because they only care for their own safety or just see so many gents they cannot recall who is who and that is a red flag imo.

I advise we start a list of the ladies that do not vouch so gents could be informed if said lady will grant them a vouch in future because imo no one belongs to anyone in the playground (jealousy is a disease), we're all here playing together and doing our best to get along and not pull each others hair. If a vouch is too much to ask for then stick to eros or tryst

My number and pm is and always will be open for verification

xoxo italia

[ThickVeronica]

I totally agree with you. Some specific girls i dont even txt anymore because they NEVER answer. But some guys keep using them as a reference 🤣🤣🤣 its so annoying. I always answer everybody.. i am not the jealous type and I can share clients without any problem. Unfortunately, not everybody think the same as us.

[Evelynmarie00]

Beautiful
My response is solely for my situation
I am a part time provider, with a primary employer. On Sunday I post my availability and unavailable day or days. I include a message: days I am unavailable I can not answer calls, text messages, PM and verification request.
An issue I have with verification request is I?ll get a random number text me : have you seen him : hobby name with no contact information, those request do not get answered. I have received numerous professional verification request from providers and agencies : Good afternoon this is () from agency / providers name. Hobbyist (xyz) # 512, is requesting to schedule an appointment and is using you as a reference. Have you seen him, would you schedule him again. Thank you in advance : agency name or providers name. Those verification request get answered in a timely matter.
Also for me .. I have a life outside the hustle. I have a weekend trip scheduled in October and in November I am going home for two weeks. During that time frame I turn off my business app number.

Me not responding to a verification request is not me being jealous
It?s due to lack of professionalism

[Just1RandomGuy]

No, seriously it just irks me that some females do this. Like they're quick to respond when they assume they're getting text from potential but once they find out I am looking for vouch/reference check it's ghost. I always inform the gent of the lady whom doesn't verify and how it's not wise to continue to see them since they don't really like to participate to keep the community safe. They either don't vouch because they only care for their own safety or just see so many gents they cannot recall who is who and that is a red flag imo.

I advise we start a list of the ladies that do not vouch so gents could be informed if said lady will grant them a vouch in future because imo no one belongs to anyone in the playground (jealousy is a disease), we're all here playing together and doing our best to get along and not pull each others hair. If a vouch is too much to ask for then stick to eros or tryst

My number and pm is and always will be open for verification

xoxo italia

All four of yall are actually good people. Same cant be said for everyone. In lieu, thank yall for being awesome.

[ck1942]

Once upon a time aboard the Mother Ship the owner worked a bit of powder room magic in gently twisting arms telling folks who didn’t cooperate or follow community rules that their privileges would be reduced even banned.

Management is considering that history.

[AlexandraSand]

Have you seen all this mess and mad comments happening in the last year in "Ladies locker" in every city?!

There is so much anger, hate and belittling going on that many providers are just staying away from all that misery and refusing communication.

And what happened with Free Will?
If every companion sets her own rules and is criminally responsible for her own safety and prosperity, who will make her do what she is not willing to do? I just wonder.

[ck1942]

Speaking of wonder ...

Once upon a time, a merchant sailor fell overboard and after a short search (Man Overboard! Execute Williamson Turn immediately!) the ship traveled on still heading to Hawaii having departed San Francisco two days earlier.

The sailor found a piece of timber and floated along until he was cast ashore on an unknown island. There wasn't much there, just a few coconut trees and a gently flowing fresh water stream.

He felt very lucky to find plants and coconuts to eat and fresh water to drink.

Yet in his dreams he recalled life in San Francisco where his home garaged two cars, a motorcycle and a tandem bicycle which he hoped one day he would ride with his bride. Of course, he had a girl in every port, so tough choices!

Meanwhile, every day at sunrise, he would circle the island looking for signs of hope on the horizon (ships!) that might spot him somehow when he would light his signal fire built from fallen palm tree leaves.
(Like every sailor, whether he smoked or not, he carried a trusty Zippo to help a shipmate light a blunt or two.

Nonetheless, on one of his jogs around the island shore -- about a one mile trek every day which kept him in pretty decent physical shape -- he spied a bottle half buried in the sand by incoming waves.

He pulled the bottle out of the sand and inside, lo and behold, he saw a tiny figure waving.



It was a genie!

(stop reading here if you already know how this tale ends -- if not, please read below)

[ck1942]

So, the sailor opened the bottle and the genie climbed out.

(here's the script)

GENIE:
THANK YOU, OH MASTER! FOR SAVING ME FROM ANOTHER HUNDRED YEARS BOTTLED UP. I CAN NOW GRANT YOU THREE WISHES!

SAILOR:
OMG! I AM SAVED.

OF COURSE I WANT TO BE TRANSPORTED BACK TO SAN FRANSISCO TO MY HOME, MY VEHICLES AND MY LADY FRIENDS!

and, shazzzaaam! The sailor is back at his San Fran doorstep, with the genie by his side!

GENIE:
MASTER, TWO WISHES BEFORE I RETURN TO MY HOME TO SLAY THE WIZARD WHO BOTTLED AND THREW ME INTO THE SEA!

SAILOR:
BUILD ME A BRIDGE SO I CAN DRIVE SAFELY TO HAWAII.

GENIE:
DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT IMPOSSIBLE FEATS OF ENGINEERING I MUST ACCOMPLISH TO DO THAT?
PLEASE GOOD SIR, ASK ME FOR SOMETHING ELSE.

SAILOR:
OKAY. HELP ME UNDERSTAND WOMEN SO I MAY CHOOSE THE RIGHT ONE FOR ME FROM THE MANY LADIES IN ALL MY PORTS!

GENIE:
DO YOU WANT TWO LANES OR FOUR LANES ON YOUR BRIDGE?