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    Your thoughts!!!

    What?s y?all thoughts on a provider texting you for a meet? Met a provider this past Sunday for a 30 mins session. Had a great encounter no doubt. She texted me 4 days later on Thursday if we could meet. I asked what she was trying to get into and she replied with the same thing from Sunday. What?s your response or how do you see it when a provider reaches out to you to meet?

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    Verified Hobbyist BCD Anandaman's Avatar
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    I'm confused... This happens all the time..

    if you like her, you say "sure" and proceed to set-up a time/place to meet.

    If you like her, but are busy, you say "I'd Love to, but can't right now". "I'll touch base with you later..."

    If you don't like her... you either don't answer and block her... Or, you answer "No thanks" then block her...

    I suggest to always be polite and courteous with any communications... unless someone gives you a serious reason not to...

    A'Man

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    Yeah it seems like she is messaging you to schedule another session. Nothing more to it

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    If you need to establish a boundary, than do it. If the arrangement was stated "same thing from Sunday", well that is up to you now.

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    Verified Hobbyist BCD Adonisman's Avatar
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    Providers will send out broadcast texts to drum up business. I used to get texts and dms all the time telling me they are 'back in town' or some sort of line like that.

    Sometimes I would text back if I had a nice time, but mostly I would just ignore. There is no wrong answer here. Do what you feel like doing.

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    What is there to think about this?

    It happens often... she's just offering her services again and letting you know she's available.

    She's not offering anything for 'free', nor should you consider yourself 'special'... lol.

    If I can't or don't want to hobby at the moment I don't reply... it's fine, I'm 99% sure you won't get blocked.

    If you do want to see her again then reply and figure out a time that will work for both.
    The Honest Reviewer - I don't reply to PMs - Semi-Retired

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