I have a question and concerns for both providers and hobbies. I hate timers going on in the middle of a session, I hate a provider reminding me that I have but a few minutes left. Is all this nessessery? As old as I am I have an inner time keeper , but never mine me some of us do love to stretch it, but don't tell me or start my time when I knock, wait till I am on the bed and touching the product. Any ideas? Yes, like a hobbies mention on here providers are full of tricks so let's resolve this in a manner to keep both sides happy.