This has to stop...my safety is more important.

[Mokoa]

It is a great benefit to you when they screen themselves.

Run your business as you see fit! Stay safe out there!

[IAmThem]

At the end of the day this is a business. Each business has its own set of rules and ways of functioning to provide what's ever needed for the business. If you can't follow or don't like the rules try something else. The most difficult part of the hobby is the lack of respect some have for others.

[LatinaMoxie]

Agreed.
I just block and move along... I understand your frustration but no one is worth me losing my happiness for. There's just really shitty humans out there. I've gotten some text that you wouldn't believe! But that still and will never define me. Stand strong girl, just remember the cup is halfway full. Not halfway empty. You're still winning and as beautiful as ALWAYS! 😘

[Shadueblaque]

At the end of the day this is a business. Each business has its own set of rules and ways of functioning to provide what's ever needed for the business. If you can't follow or don't like the rules try something else. The most difficult part of the hobby is the lack of respect some have for others.

Beat me to it. I?ve always been of the mindset a bit of kindness and effort can get you a long way with people. Show some respect and if things don?t connect it wasn?t meant to happen. Plenty of times I?ve been told no or no response when reaching out and I never felt angry to the provider. It?s like fishing sometimes you get a bite sometimes you don?t. If you don?t find another honey hole.

On a side note for providers, if hair your stands up on back of your neck or it?s well outside your boundaries what you are willing to do, it ain?t worth it.

Be safe, have fun, live life.

[Kammye]

At the end of the day this is a business. Each business has its own set of rules and ways of functioning to provide what's ever needed for the business. If you can't follow or don't like the rules try something else. The most difficult part of the hobby is the lack of respect some have for others.

:)

[Agent220]

In summary folks:

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[winchhandle]

Given the nature of our little world, one would think that these guys would appreciate a provider trying to verify and clear them. I hear that and it lets me know they are level headed and (most likely) not shady about their ways. If a guy is scoffing at getting verified, then he's hiding something and/or up to no good. And no, that's not WK'ing. That's being honest and realistic. If I'm going to be in a situation where I'm naked and vulnerable with my special bits in someone's mouth...I think I want them feeling safe and comfortable, not upset with me or in a mood.

I second this. We'll written.

[Kammye]

In summary folks:

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Basically This!

[GracePreston]

I'm at the point now that if a gent cannot be screened via normal methods and refuses alternative screening methods-- I suggest to him that if he still wants to see me without screening, he'll have to wait for my next brothel tour to do so. At least then I don't have to worry about LE and I have security just a panic button away.

[IrreverentTxn]

As a guy, I would imagine that guys like this have the potential to be dangerous. If you can dehumanize someone like that, what else are you capable of doing to them? Be careful.

[AlluringStacy]

I strongly agree with this I?ve had a gentlemen before come in and throw money on a couch and immediately tried starting session with no hello nothing I told his ass to get dressed and go ahead and go I kept some of the donation for waisting my time and trying to treat me like a blowup doll, any less I don?t waste my time with gentlemen that think their too good for verification

[lovelyxxxo]

Kammy I hope your doing well .

I don't understand the dehumanizing issue as this is one of the few countries that don't have a union for s.w.
But then maybe that's why we see am influx there's no safety written out for us.

But guys ... please be kind .. if we wanted a way bam thank ya we can get 1 nighters without problem.. but look at us as a business like a shop on river oaks you go in and greet staff employees just as they do you.. it's called common courtesy.. manners .. good citizenship... and just being a decent human being.. if you can't do that treasures is always open or the oyo hotel lot is full of those who don't care ...


Ladies. Don't do any1 or anything your not comfy with. Period! Don't sell your soul for a dollar. That's insane.. and I do understand ladies have issues carrying chrome ..( not I but some) and you all please have something ( pepper spray, tazer) to defend if needed .. your allowing a stranger into your space and while most are normal there's always 1 ...

As for women scarred of police interaction the answer is simple " I swiped right we met he was a predator" or " we met at the bar seemed nice but once alone got disrespectful wouldn't accept no" do YOU THINK HES GONNA RISK TELLING THE 50 HES A PAID DATE KNOWING HES probably not wanting to show up on the news as a John.. no he's not .. and police deal with "bad hookups" all the time.. they won't think twice . When asked why " the motel"( if there) say "well thank goodness I protected my address or he could come back.. I don't just take people to my home". Both answers are acceptable for not knowing a name as predators often lie about their names on social dating accounts or at bars to feel a sense of "I won't get caught she doesn't know my name there's alot that match my discription"

Please be safe...
Kammy I'm glad your safe both physically and mentally ..

[Yonni]

A gentleman who requested my services who has NO recent verifiable references told me he isnt screening because my who*e a** isnt worth all of that. Which is fine; its his choice. But this happens ALOT. And its very draining. I screen for not only my safety but the clients as well. My screening protocol is not invasive at all. And to be told im not worth it just reaffirms that some of these men dont see us as human. But we are...some are mothers; students; etc. Escorts are not ******s there is a difference. If you dont want to be screened and also want to ask me for BB sessions head over to Bissonnet they can oblige you.


I will not.

My reputation in the hobby is a good one. It wont be tarnished because im not choosing to put my safety first.


Kam.

Hi
Thank you for standing your ground, Kam. It?s frustrating and disheartening to encounter such attitudes, but your safety and respect are non-negotiable. Your professionalism and commitment to safety truly set you apart. Stay strong and know that you have every right to enforce your boundaries.

I?ve experienced similar situations with guys who refuse to screen?no handle, no ID, no business card, no references, and no deposit. It?s disheartening, but I always make it clear that screening is essential for my safety and peace of mind. If a client isn?t willing to provide verification, we?re not a good match. Like you, I handle all information with the utmost discretion, and I won?t compromise my standards.

[Crtdb]

No provider should be treated bad. Screening is important for all. Ladies, I agree block the idiots.