ASPD was owned and operated by Amber in Houston (a.k.a. Bustygal), a Houston provider. ASPD was very respectful, and I met my first three TX based providers through it. About 20 years later, those three ladies still rate in my Top 10 hobby experiences.
Amber didn't condone disrespect, flaming, NC/NS's or other bad behavior by either gender. And when she banned a hobbyist or a provider, they stayed banned. No creating a new profile name and being back from the dead in a few minutes.
I had a few offline email exchanges with her and found her very fair and even handed. What was sauce for the goose was also sauce for the gander.
To a certain degree, Summer is trying to re-create that atmosphere with PP, but the whole hobby scene has changed so drastically with OF, IG, X, etc. Boards like this and PP are really a throwback to 20 years ago.