Newbie Question - Would like to hear from both sides

[LMSmurf]

Is it customary or expected to provide tip in addition to the provider's posted rates? What about gifts?

No one has asked me for these, but I just want to make sure that I'm treating people fairly. I'm all about manners.

[R1966]

I don't think it's customary or expected to provide a tip or gift. Totally up to you.

IMO, this country is out of control with who should get a tip and the "suggested" percentages shown on apps/receipts. In most other countries, many of these folks (eg. waiters) get paid a living wage and perhaps a small service fee is included. If anyone leaves a tip, it's a round-up to the next even number or small denomination coin(s).

[LatinaMoxie]

I, personally, don't expect any tips or gifts. That's totally up to you. 😘

[Ben Rhimene]

I think it depends on the setting. Escorts here set there donation for a set of services. If they deliver at, or below, expectations then no tip. If they exceed expectations then tips let them know.

Agencies and AMPs are different because donation set by others. If you get great service a tip helps the lady out but also highlights you as noticing. Not all guys care about that, TBH.

[Zoom318]

Is it customary or expected to provide tip in addition to the provider's posted rates? What about gifts?

No one has asked me for these, but I just want to make sure that I'm treating people fairly. I'm all about manners.

I do gift.
3 of my favorite providers got gifts from me. No hard feelings on the rest of them, just they are my ATF?s

And I do not have any problem on mentioning them,

Catherine W

https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php?77233-Catherine-W

KikaNicolle

https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php?166255-KikaNicolle

NataliaClark

https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php...Nathalia-clark

They went beyond my expectations and I think they deserve a lot more.

I just want them to feel that I?m grateful. No extra cash

An special mention to Alisson,

https://home.ourhome2.net/member.php?149948-Alisson

She has been wonderful.
No gifts to her yet, but It?s going to happen

[Brooke Wilde]

If you want to tip because you found the session to be outstanding - It's your choice but it is not a requirement for independent ladies.

I never ask for tips but am extremely grateful when I do get them.

It pretty much lets me know he had a great time.

I also enjoy the short texts right after the appointment thanking me for my time & expressing their satisfaction.

[Zed 79]

Fuck no.

[LMSmurf]

These are great responses! I do appreciate the feedback.

[Kara Nicole]

Fuck no.

And that?s your right!

[Cameron]

I personally do not require a tip or a gift, I think that might be a little bit rude. However, if a gentleman feels like he wants to tip me, or gift me, that’s fine by me! I’ve had gentleman bring wine, chocolates, and even ask if I would like to go out to dinner before or after. So, to answer your question, just do what you feel is necessary. If a provider gets mad at you for not gifting, a deposit or gifting, anything, I just wouldn’t see her again.

[canihitit]

Whose pussy is so good that y’all are tipping?

And does she see black guys?

[LMSmurf]

LoL. Of the 3 ladys that I have met with so far, none have asked me or insinuated in any way that I was expected to tip them but I wanted to make sure that I wasn't being stingy or rude by not adhering to a custom that I was unaware of.

To answer canihiit's question, Ms Moxie below will definitely be on my Christmas card list this year. 🤣

[canihitit]

Damn. You got turnt out.

That pussy is dangerous. It’s June and you thinking of a gift in December. I’ll stick to the regular pussy. Y’all can have that Wagyu pussy.

[Gentlemanrich]

I've tipped and given gifts. I tip waiters/waitresses who do nothing but take my order, carry food and fill my glass. I tip car hops that valet my car. I tip ladies where I get a massage. I tip bell hops that handle my bags at hotels. Why wouldn't I consider a tip or gift for someone that offers me services I appreciate? And yes, I clearly understand that's what the hourly rate is intended to cover.