Quote Originally Posted by Anna Nikkole View Post
OP made a thread in Coed about the hobby. There is a difference in a PSA and annoyance, than being hurt or want to fight.

I will say, if my first contact is to receive a text of "Anna, do you offer greek". I don't know where he saw my ad, I don't know if he missed it. Ill either just send a clipboard with important information with that included, or a simple no.

What the OP was discussing was bombarding and continued persuasion.

And I personally cannot take it up the ass or that ray of sunshine that shoots out of it when I'm face down will be blocked. Many of my lovely admirers will be disappointed :)
Quote Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke View Post
It's easy to blame guys for asking for things not on an advertised menu, but the guys are not really to blame for this, and neither are the ladies. The one to blame is In N Out Burgers and all of their secret menu options that have conditioned us to ask for things we do not see in writing. Think about it. That burger chain has been doing these secret menu items for 75 years! No wonder my generation and those preceding it are conditioned to ask for things that are not advertised. I'm ready to start a campaign to tell In N Out Burgers, and any other joint out there, to refrain from offering secret menu items as it is really taking a toll on us in the hobby.
The guys are very much to blame. I'm truly hoping this was a sarcastic comment and you don't truly think like this. Its giving "video games are teaching kids to be violent". People are more than capable of discerning when it is and not ok to ask about "off menu items", as this isn't a restaurant and far from it.