Trans Count: What does me "ghosting you" 6 months ago have to do with ANYTHING Ive said here? If Im not mistaken, and Im not, this now marks the FOURTH TIME you have brought this out in the open. The first time you brought it to my attention, I sincerely apologized to you for it, yet here we are.... Let me ONCE AGAIN EXPLAIN WHAT HAPPENED> It was NOT an intentional GHOST on my behalf. Your phone number, and another persons phone number were similar. I honestly thought I was talking to one person, when apparently I was talking to two different people. It was a mistake, GET OVER IT for Gods sake. What on earth does that even have to do with this? Not a damn thing. Get over it.
1. My propposed strategy "You do Greek first" Was not a proposed strategy at all, and anyone with common sense would read that along with the rest of my rant and understand that all Im doing is passively explaining WHY I do not do GREEK with Clients. Any man would NEVER take me up on that offer if he was in his right mind. But if that was not made clear in this post, then I guess I didn't stress the POINT OF MY RANT ENOUGH. My Bad... Ill do better next time.
2. Have you actually LOOKED at my signature? No? OK, because its listed there, but I figured a lot of guys don't read the signature so I took an extra step and I ALSO add my "No's" to every single ad I place, and I place DAILY ADS DAILY!!!. Need an example? You can find a ton of them simply by searching SexyJess and taking the time to read my ads. Please, before accusing someone of not being clear in her ads, do your research. It's there, I promise.
3. RANTING HERE WILL ABSOLUTELY educate SOMEONE... Even if it isn't you, I promise, someone took away something from this post. If no one did, then my hope in humanity is lost. Maybe not all of them, but I bet I get less questions if I do Greek after this post... Oh look, I didn't have to tell ANY of my clients today that its not on the menu 3, 4 or 5 times! What do you know! It actually worked!!!. Not only that, my traffic for the day even INCREASED. That was unexpected, but a nice surprise regardless :) Why would I only post in a forum where my target audience - YOU - cant read it? The ladies of this forum and of this industry - if you want to call it that - ALREADY KNOW the challenges... YOU, obviously don't. Hence why I've posted here. I'm still trying to wrap myself around why you are so offended by it anyways, considering you aren't the one this is directed at... Either you HAVE done that in the past, or you're just looking to stir up something that literally doesn't need to be stirred up. But hey, you be you.
4. I didn't know you were a part of the LGBTQ! Heres a newsflash, so am I. Ive been a part of this community since I was a child and realized who I was. So tell me, who are you to assume that Ive offended a community that you are not a part of? OR are you? Either way, facts are facts, and although its distasteful to speak about, the fact of the matter remains. It is what it is. Again, no offense.
5. I mentioned in the original post that I enjoy Greek. That was THE VERY FIRST TIME I've ever been open and honest about what I enjoy behind closed doors. So this statement doesn't apply. It cant! Show me anywhere where I have dangled a carrot like this anywhere on this site other than RIGHT HERE... Furthermore,If you know most of the ladies have significant others and it ruins the magic for you, then what are we doing here? Just like you said, its make believe... right... so, pretend that your favorite girl is single, since its all make believe anyways. If you don't want to read about something that frustrates us, then stop clicking on the posts. I posted this to educate the few men that need it. I'm not saying all will take to it and retain this information, but I will put money on it that at least one will. and that's good enough for me.
6. "Most people disregard rants and angry words", huh? YOU DIDN'T... And what's funny is that this literally had NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU ANYWAYS, yet you still took the bait, didn't you? And the last I checked we have no emotional attachment either. But your right, most people will disregard rants... Lol... ok..
7. The only thing that will help me with my frustration, is when my boundaries are respected, and not overlooked time and time again. We want you to enjoy your time with us as well. Picking and pestering us just causes this type of reaction. The fact of the matter is - this isn't difficult. And I know its possible for a man to respect boundaries, because the majority of you do respect them. It's just the ones that cant get it through your heads that no means no.
Question for you... Why would you assume that I'm dramatic? Every client that I've had has never once complained about me being dramatic. every one of your statements here, is a random assumption that by no means has any validation here. My clients enjoy our time together. I'm sorry the opportunity for you was unsuccessful. But that doesn't give you the right to ATTEMPT to call me out because everything your saying isn't even valid. But one thing I can say, and I guarantee you this. I am more drama-free than you are. I'd put MONEY on that :) Lol.
You sir, are just LOOKING for drama. I saw that 6 months ago when you emailed me thinking I intentionally Ghosted you.. C'Mon now... get real. Accidents happen, Love.
As for your lengthy response, If it doesn't pertain to you, then stay out of it. Just like you mentioned, you were not the one who offended me. Sooooo why are you even bothering with this? Seems like a waste of time, no? Why exactly are YOU insulted? Lol. just trying to stir up shit that doesn't even pertain to this conversation. By the way, your signature offends me enough to set off a red flag that maybe ghosting you - although an accident - was a blessing in disguise.
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