OP…these ladies have a lot going on outside of the hobby. For example in your scenario: Sophia Dane is/was a provider and a dancer at a strip club. A provider seeing someone trying to film them is an everyday occurrence. These ladies have to deal with a lot of weirdos, stalker types, pimps, recruiters, other ladies, etc…you can go on all day. When any lady retires they do it for their own reasons. They simply move on. I guarantee you Sophia Dane (or any other lady) has not thought twice about you or the situation you explained. Is a stripper gonna feel disrespected if you play a game on your phone instead of watching them? Of course they are…but they just go to the next customer and move on. You should move on too.