hun, as a CW provider who sees fellows with ED difficulties, I can answer from my perspective. I never have, and never will, provide face pictures. I know half of this town and have lived here over 40 years and I am active in the local music, politics, and many other cutural scenes here. I think you should pick a provider with the skills you need and the reviews to back that up. once a woman provides her face in this job, essentially her cover is blown, she is a "marked" woman and she can not have a "normal" life and be active in local public activites. I believe that when push comes to shove, a good skill set from a provider with an excellent reputation can blow the doors off a cute pretty girl lacking the experience and skills to get to the meat of your matter and satisfy your difficulties. Guys do not pick me for my looks. They pick me because they need the skills that I offer and know they will have a sure fire damn good time. From a woman's point of view, through our long lives, a pretty face is there for a bit, while experience, skills and a good attitude can last a woman a lot longer in this hobby. Humans are programed to be attracted to beauty. there is no fault to that and your desires are normal. But what about the desire for novelty, the new, finding the best? those desires too have shaped human evolution. I hope you find a happy medium here. I am so happy I have ever provided a face picture, that I have lasted in this hobby and that my skill set has put me in the good place I am in now. I value my participation in my community, my town, my friends and this hobby is none of their business. Society still judges woman harshly in so many ways. You must forgive those of us with the desire to protect our privacy and need to be involved in a local life without the scarlet letter of this hobby emblazoned on our foreheads. So my advice is ask nicely and be polite and understanding when she politely declines to blow her cover forever on your behalf. good luck sugar!