Bobbing a provider's head during a BJ

[TemptationTammie]

I think it depends how they are doing it.
Don't push my hair into my face and we are fine. I don't want my hair going into my mouth or eyes.

I don't mind if they hold my head or 'bounce' it because it lets me know the speed he likes or that he is getting into it.

[Amberence]

I think it depends how they are doing it.
Don't push my hair into my face and we are fine. I don't want my hair going into my mouth or eyes.

I don't mind if they hold my head or 'bounce' it because it lets me know the speed he likes or that he is getting into it.

I absolutely agree. One of my biggest pet peeves is when they try to cover my ears I don't so much mind my head because as mentioned above it helps with the speed and how they like it. But when they're covering my ears back and forth with their hands is just something that I don't care for.

[Kammye]

what about touching your ta ta’s???

i love my tatas being jiggled...and caressed. Youre long overdue sir....

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I do not touch the Lady's head unless she wants it. When I dine at the Y and the Lady touches my head and caresses my scalp I know I am doing a good job.

100% agree

[someguy12]

I do not touch the Lady's head unless she wants it. When I dine at the Y and the Lady touches my head and caresses my scalp I know I am doing a good job.

I try not to do it myself and I agree on the 2nd statement. I love when they caress your face or rub your head. It’s a turn on.

[Guest 011723-1]

Yes. There is a gent in particular that I put on my no see list for busting my lip during a bj. This is a definite no no guys! There should be no visible blood after a BJ. LOL.

[Kammye]

Yes. There is a gent in particular that I put on my no see list for busting my lip during a bj. This is a definite no no guys! There should be no visible blood after a BJ. LOL.

Omg smh. You think thats bad, one guy gave me a rug burn on my mouth from pushing my face so hard.

[mathguy]

Oh wow I totally missed this thread with some of the humor at my expense Very funny Ben and gals

I don't quite get that detailed in my research or the study of or application of intimate activities.... bwahaha

Anyway, in all seriousness I totally understand the majority of the girls POV. I don't usually like to hold, touch, or move my partners head during a BJ. U won't say I've never ever touched her head, of course I have. Maybe if she sorta motioned me to do it OR if I got particularly horny or in that mood; however even then I have never ever been anywhere even remotely as rough as what has been described by some of the girls! Wow Bleeding? Rug burn? Holy fuck!

My preference is a completely, or nearly completely (i.e. >80% of it), hands free BJ if I'm being pedantic about exactly what I just absolutely "love". It's just really sexy b/c it's all lips & tongue. A BJ with 50% or more hand activity is just a fancy handjob isn't it? Hah I'm not gonna knock those who like it. We all like different things. For me I love a woman that just puts it in her mouth and let's it come alive; and if she can handle doing that with very little hands that's super hot! I mean don't get me wrong, a BJ is good no matter what.

And, again, this one isn't to throw any shade at anyone either, but I really don't understand the obsession with FF (very similar to the discussion DM brought up regarding the... ummm... "fartbox" bwahaha ). Especially really hard FF where your hands are aggressively pulling her head and you're literally "fucking her face ferociously and forcefully". Yikes!

I really just don't get it. I don't like to see that. A woman shoykd not have loads of tears, makeup, gagging uncontrollably, or dang near vomiting. Not for me... uh uh. Nope. It seems like one of those acts which is rooted in debasement, shame, and humiliation.

I'm not saying it actually IS. Please fellas, or even ladies who happen to like it, don't get upset. Please. I'm not saying you're a weirdo or anything like that, not at all, but personally it "seems" like that to me and it's just not interesting to me as a result.

It's like cumming on a girl's face or whatever. Once again I'm not saying there is something wrong with you if you like that, I totally realize shit tons of people like it, but personally I don't.

It's just a little too close of a reminder toward the debasement and humiliation side of things (and, one more time, I'm NOT saying that if you like it that's what you are doing -- I just think it somehow originated from those things as porn had to push the envelope). And they're a little too much of that for me personally (as opposed to say really dirty talk, slapping her ass, or even CIM, etc...).

Take CIM for example. That's not to debase. That's done bc it feels immensely pleasurable to a man. That's totally different IMO. I love CIM because it feels so good. In fact almost too good lol. So good I often have to pull away b/c it's sooooo sensitive while cumming, depending on the girl's technique.

But I have zero care at all where the cum ends up. IJS. I love to be nasty with a girl that likes it but some of these [relatively] newer acts just seem so aggressive to me or a bit too rooted in a type of humiliation.

I can be nasty. I like it when a girl has that certain side with the dirty talk and the fuck me harder and screaming or yelling and loud moaning and smacking ass, pulling hair if it's desired by her, CIM, I'll lick her ass (dato) like no one's biz if she's very clean (usually while doing daty or something from behind or by going down very very low during mish daty), I will swap fluids all day long with a clean girl that I really like (e.g. kissing passionately after eating/licking each other's parts, etc...). All that stuff. But I just don't like the stuff that reminds me of debasement for the sake of debasement.

I'd probably call my brand of passionate, vigorous, fucking, "respectful yet at the same time, possibly very nasty fucking [depending on dynamics, girls needs/wishes, chemistry...], with mutually consensual acts of filthy dirty talk, erotica, and orgasm producing activities...".

For me it's really all about what she wants. If she really wants me to fuck her in the ass, for example, then I'll do it with a passion (or attempt it). Sure. However, if I do it, it's for her. But yea I'll do it.

[Ben Rhimene]

Sigh...was really hoping to see the formula...

[mathguy]

Sigh...was really hoping to see the formula...

Hahaha. Well I suppose I could design an algorithm if you really want one Ben? Lmao. J/k

[Ben Rhimene]

Hahaha. Well I suppose I could design an algorithm if you really want one Ben? Lmao. J/k

Personally, I think it would help gender/generational relationships. When I was 20 if a female looked at my member it was game over. Now, she needs to work a bit, and there are surely geezers here who require more work. A scientific formula which addresses most BBBJs would be handy for the membership (FAR too many nomenclature jokes in this post...sorry?).

[MissBee]

I don't mind a sensual hand on my head but if your goal is to dictate how deep...I will stop. It's my technique... just lay back and relax

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

I need to amend my earlier statement on this subject.....

There was this one fuckwaffle that went on and on about how dissatisfied he was with his past experiences with providers. No connection, rushed, no conversation or cuddling, etc. So he was really looking forward to meeting me since I advertise to provide all the things they were lacking in.

Fast forward to his session...
He comes in, strips, lays down on the bed and just looks from me to his member.
Doesn't seem to want to kiss or cuddle or talk at all.
(Ok....? Let's get this shit over with then)

Once I'm down there, trying to work him up, he grabs my head and proceeds to Rabbit Fuck my mouth. Pops within a minute. Jumps up before I can, dresses and heads for the door.

ALLLrighty then. So most would be wanting to say that he did not like what he saw when I opened the door and he was just getting it over with himself.

However, this guy was calling back only the next week wanting to see me again! W.T.F. ??

No way in hell will I subject myself to be treated like a goddamn fleshlight AGAIN by this idiot.

And Dude, if you are on here and reading this, you know who you are. Stick with the ones you claimed to be dissatisfied with. They were giving you exactly what you obviously wanted and did nothing for you to complain about.

[Guest 011723-1]

Omg smh. You think thats bad, one guy gave me a rug burn on my mouth from pushing my face so hard.

Ouch! That's terrible!

[Mauricio_G]

I usually grab the hair and hold it out of the way so that I can see the work the girl is doing, I like seeing the BJ action live...now if the BJ sucks in a bad way then I might try to dictate the motion, not necessarily face fucking, and definitely don't like to force girls to do something they don't want to do, but let's be honest some girls are use to do it one way, and one way only, now a lot of dudes might like it, I might not, so if you were my GF or SO I would adjust, or put up with it for as long as I can, but here I'm paying for a service, I'm paying to be pleased, I'm not into face fucking, but if you are not willing to please me doing the motion, rythm I want, then one and not coming back. For example some girls have told me they had guys who like when they suck their balls, it doesn't do anything for me, actually it feels weird to me and not in a good way, so I tell girls to stop that with me, to me that shit looks good in porn, but not for me in real life. So it is good to find a girl that is willing to please the "customer" because that's what I am.