Do you think porn has an affect on the hobby?

[Anna Nikkole]

What do you think? Expectations? Activities?

[Nascobar21]

Porn, no. Only fans, yes

[Ben Rhimene]

Very solid question.

I think it is a resounding "Yes" as porn brings so many variants one might NEVER have considered and presents it as acceptable.

To me, the bigger question is: how do you respond?

On the one hand, we all have our own hang-ups, but we should also keep an open mind with respect to sex. This dilemma presents itself in both personal AND hobby life. I have a lady I view as an amazing fit in the hobby, yet she outfreaks me 10x...how do I handle those issues?!?!?! Aside from kicking the proverbial can!

[DocHoliday]

Porn, no. Only fans, yes

A very solid and correct answer Bro.

+1 Nascobar

[Anna Nikkole]

Porn, no. Only fans, yes

Isn't it the difference between paid professional porn and amateur porn? Or what guys see in the videos the girls don't do in person?

[Island_Gent]

What do you think? Expectations? Activities?

Yep...and not in a good way, imo.

[Panda9184]

i believe both porn and OF does have an effect but i would agree that OF probably has a bigger effect. Even tho we all know the porn is fake and bad acting 100% of the time. The expectation and behavior we see may consciously or unconsciously carry over like how woman all have fetishes or they are all submissive also just how we do things BCD. Porn made fetishes seem like a common things in the bedroom and therefore providers do feel like there must explore and offer more things. (at least thats what i think happens) But i dont mean that it changes things overnight. Its just something that carries over and evolve the industry over a period of time.

OF exacerbates that because its a more personal level of porn i believe. Woman say things and do things on there to make sales and sometimes it goes over the guys head and thinking that is normal. (i.e. they post video of them squirt after 2 minutes of playing and says things like just thinking of your dick makes me squirt and all wet). However fake it is, men subscribe to OF to get a more personal level of porn and things like that make them think eventually that is how she will be like when they are with you and that thought carries over to what they expect and want to happen when they see a provider. We may not always realize its but the subconscious does control alot of how you think and the way you think. When you watch and see something enough times, it gets into your head and logical thinking gets thrown out.

[Anna Nikkole]

i believe both porn and OF does have an effect but i would agree that OF probably has a bigger effect. Even tho we all know the porn is fake and bad acting 100% of the time. The expectation and behavior we see may consciously or unconsciously carry over like how woman all have fetishes or they are all submissive also just how we do things BCD. Porn made fetishes seem like a common things in the bedroom and therefore providers do feel like there must explore and offer more things. (at least thats what i think happens) But i dont mean that it changes things overnight. Its just something that carries over and evolve the industry over a period of time.

OF exacerbates that because its a more personal level of porn i believe. Woman say things and do things on there to make sales and sometimes it goes over the guys head and thinking that is normal. (i.e. they post video of them squirt after 2 minutes of playing and says things like just thinking of your dick makes me squirt and all wet). However fake it is, men subscribe to OF to get a more personal level of porn and things like that make them think eventually that is how she will be like when they are with you and that thought carries over to what they expect and want to happen when they see a provider. We may not always realize its but the subconscious does control alot of how you think and the way you think. When you watch and see something enough times, it gets into your head and logical thinking gets thrown out.

I love this response. Definitely puts things in perspective.

Everyone who sees me know I have hardcore playing in the background. For the purpose of hitting my biggest sex organ "the mind". Because the extreme acts these chicks do, I'm not doing. And most don't pay attention to it honestly because they know me and we get sensual together. But I feel as if some look at me like I owe those things. Slapping to rough, rubbing the pussy to hard and no concern if it's hurting the other person. I just wonder if men who frequent working girls in the 60's did that?

Don't get me wrong, I'm glad for the internet because I get to meet so many cool people, but I am more of a passionate and sensual provider. And I do actually do what I post on my OF page. So that kinda threw me off. I get it though!

[Anna Nikkole]

Women sometimes get abused in porn. I have clients try to be aggressive with me. I even play porn, the purpose is to excite the mind, not to mimic the TV!

Perhaps this is where sending dick pics seemed like the norm. Making an appointment with scripted and blatant words also seem ok.

I can't tell you how many clients I have told to fuck off. And after years, I can definitely see why some turn bsc lol.

Is there a time to remember that we are human, and convert into fantasy apon arrival? Or does the fantasy start once the girl is picked on the internet?

[kctx1790]

Porn and OF are cheaper than the hobby but just not nearly as fun. Lol

[Anna Nikkole]

Porn and OF are cheaper than the hobby but just not nearly as fun. Lol

Does it give a false expectation?

Like the expectation that a woman likes being hit hard?

I mean I'm into some really good hard fucking but not into pain. I see so much that there is a level of uncomfort and pain. And looks like the woman is just going with the motions until the camera stops rolling. And I'm thinking the guy loves it.

Unless she is a pain freak anyways (nothing wrong with it).

[NaughtyAughty]

Absolutely I believe porn has a huge effect in the hobby... especially with the youngsters! they've got an addiction and once they have the real live thing in front of them they don't know what to do because they believe everything is like Hollywood.. quickly they realize that NO my legs don't bend that way & or their dicks don't work that way & it's disappointing!! And hence the reason I don't like to see anyone under 40 😁🤗👍

[kytty]

I think that porn of the internet has changed sex overall. I think guys watch so much of it and see EVERYTHING constantly that it has desensitized them so they have a need for more and more extreme things. Just regular sex doesnt hit anymore for them.

[Anna Nikkole]

I think that porn of the internet has changed sex overall. I think guys watch so much of it and see EVERYTHING constantly that it has desensitized them so they have a need for more and more extreme things. Just regular sex doesnt hit anymore for them.

Desensitized is so accurate. Like what can I do for you if you seen or done it all.

Personally I love to make love, and I love to cum by pounding as well. Porn isn't about sensual and passionate at all lol.

One reason I love my older clients. They love to make love!

[DocHoliday]

A good question OP but...I’m really too busy jacking off to online porn vids to give your question much thought.