Maybe start a yahoo vouch club type thing.
No messages are exchanged.
Just guys become members if they feel they are reliable appt. keepers and girls are then encouraged to add a "YES I vouch for him" to his profile info. somewhere.
This way, when girls come to NOLA, they can go on this list and check the gent who's making the appt. and see if he's reliably vouched or not. If so, they can then schedule with confidence. If not, they can still schedule, but they should know that there's a chance he can NCNS or have potential problems.
Call it the "RELIABLE & RESPECTFUL GENTLEMEN'S GROUP" (RRGG)
There would have to be a way to keep guys from pretending to be women and vouching themselves. Maybe have some respected local provider or one who travels there often have this NOLA list. Make it NOLA exclusive. Then she can verify the gents who ask to join that they are whom they claim to be and women who join or write in also are given his basic info. like email, phone and handle....to double check.
I don't know...just an idea but some sort of list. Or maybe, just start a thread here and call it the same thing: RELIABLE & RESPECTFUL GENTLEMEN OF NOLA. Gents can post the following: "Yes I'm respectful of my appointments in NOLA." Girls can comment on the thread and say "YES I've scheduled with him before. I vouch for him." Or if many men have added their names to the list, she can post with her list "Yes I vouch for Mr. X, Mr. Y, Mr. V".
Keep this at the top of the NOLA section and then girls who travel there can read and see that certain guys will be good appt. keepers if they schedule. If a guy has added to the thread but he has no providers stepping into the ring for him to vouch for him, he needs to either have someone say something for him or the provider needs to take no vouches yet into consideration when scheduling.
This way seeing a post from the handle of the gent and the handle of the lady should be a decent vouching for the most part. Girls are STILL encouraged to screen somehow. In other words, write the ladies who vouched for him to double check that they indeed saw him and no one used their profile to vouch without her permission.
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