CVK is my spirit animal. I want traditional, and not a boyfriend but a husband. Someone I can love and grow old with. Someone who understands the sacrifice I'm making to join our incomes and build a beautiful future for US. Even if I make 3x more than him, it's ok because we are a unit, a team. So if he can get a decent hourly wage and keep himself and me safe, absolutely I would let him. If he was attracted to the client or not he would have to make money for US.
And by sacrifice I mean my freedom, my safety, my health. And yes sometimes my body aches, it's called a day at work. Someone who wants to join together and retire completely and beautifully in 5-10 years and appreciate each other.
So I don't date in the hobby. I don't NEED variety, I need money. I have wonderful clients but I would not have sex with them for free or pleasure. I'm compensated. I am not bi, so I won't bring in a 3rd person, and in the hobby I'm strictly 1 on 1. No couples, no 3 somes, no swinging. And yes I'm still great at what I do! But I have my hours, I would have a schedule and time for him always. We would be a team, I would never give a pass. You want that, stay a hobbyist. Keep paying. I'm not giving you anything if you aren't happy. I'm not working because I'm sexually not happy, I'm working for OUR FUTURE. Not your money flying out, while I'm working to bring it in!
So I appreciate D_J and his response. It's not for him, period. Better than "oh boy the things I'm going to do with all these different bitches now".
I'll stay single.....
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I think this may be a part of the problem. The only way to understand this fairly is to put ourselves in the ladies frame of mind. OK, they provide with 2 customers during the day, fucking in 10 different positions from plain ole missionary to swinging by the ceiling fan. Perhaps they want something more intimate, more like making love, and having actual passion. This is one way the boyfriend of a provider can meet her needs. Us gentlemen aren't ATMs and the ladies aren't machines either. They have hearts and needs just like us guys do.
Let's dig a bit deeper. Let's say all the guys are providers. Now we get a text to see an unknown lady. I guess there is someway to quickly verify if she's not a cop, I just don't know. So we get a room and meet the lady and take a chance she isn't a cop. Next she's 70 years old, 5 foot tall, and weighs 300 pounds, and hasn't showered in two days. Now big boy, get it up and do what she wants you to do for the next 30 minutes. Just being honest, this can't be easy. Then at another time you get an appointment for 8pm, you pay for the room and she doesn't show up. This is just a small sample size what the ladies go through sometimes on a daily basis.
One of the ladies mentioned their clients aren't Brad Pitt or George Clooney. Me, I'm midway between Quasimodo and Brad Pitt, leaning toward Brad Pitt.
Am I kissing the ladies asses and white knighting? That's not my intent, as my intent was to turn the coin over and look at the other side.
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THIS.
This is a job gentlemen, we are offering a service. If someone is the complete (and I mean complete fucking package) package, he is getting pussy thrown at him for FREE ALL DAY LONG. Not posting and reminiscing like some "has beens" on how many years they've had to pay for pussy. That's pathetic in a RW Sad Way. All of my brothers (and anyone else they sent it to...) laughed when I sent that public thread.
Cut the emotions, no one that has their shit together and is a healthy individual is here looking for a relationship. It creeps me out personally. I would never truly date a hobbyist but, an S.O will know that I hobby; we just don't discuss it.
This is a business. Nothing more, nothing less.
Carry on...
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I feel the same way. I want a husband to grow old with.
But I realize that I am going to have to leave the hobby and be 100% in the real world for that to happen.
And it may possibly never happen (having a husband, not leaving the hobby, lol) and I am ok with that. What's more important is my happiness than just finding any random warm body.
I quit the hobby for a while and got engaged a few years ago. The dude cheated on me and left me with broken heart. I might as well just have stayed in the hobby and never dealt with him at all and I would have been much happier. He got to sleep around and I didn't. I could have just been here instead, hanging out with you guys and avoided a messy heartbreak.
So I don't date in the hobby cause just like most of the guys here, I don't want any drama in my life. I am focused on my goals and hopefully when I reach them, there will be someone waiting for me on the other side of all of this, and it will someone who sees me for who I really am.
I recently had a guy that wanted me to step outside of the provider/hobbyist relationship. I tried to get him to see me as a real person, as a human being, not just as Chloe Van Katie. But it didn't work. He couldn't see me any other way and even called me "Chloe" and not my name. He would laugh and giggle and make jokes about my job and take cheap shots at me for what I do. No matter hard I tried to get him to see that there was more to me, he just couldn't and I am pretty sure he was just looking for a good time at my expense. I ghosted him.
I felt bad about it, and grappled with whether I should go back and explain why I chose to ghost him. But now after seeing the responses in this thread, I see I made the right decision.
Like the Mr. Steel previously mentioned in this thread, the guy wasn't gonna see me as anything else than someone who lets guys cum in her mouth. I was a joke to him. I am person with feelings and emotions too, and I don't deserve to be used.
I will GLADLY stay single.
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I date all of you lovely ladies on here (part time). I pay you for that time and i do my best to make love to each of you. You WILL get yours before i get mine! I like to lead the dance. So i try to date all of you lovely women here for a qv, hhr, hour. Whichever i can squeeze in time for. I enjoy the IOP.
Keep this in mind guys, the ladies here are usually giving up intimacy for just sex and being compensated for it.
But its baffling how folks can accept that for an OB/GYN, it really becomes nothing more than a job, but for ladies here it's can't possibly be just a job.
If I go to the bar and get drunk, do I assume the bartender is getting drunk too just cause he is in the same room?
Or is he there, just doing his job?
I meet with alot of providers that have boyfriends-S.O.s & know that their guy is getting the same pussy for free that I'm paying for but he's not enjoying it as much as I am.
And so there are no misconceptions I am not here looking for a connection. I actually prefer to meet with ladies that are in serious relationships.
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