OK a guy comment:
Long answer:
I'm on a handful of boards, and btw, gals still post "ads" on the Exxxx board.
But, as I always have, 99% of my dates are gals already on my dance card that I click with (most are traveling gals whom I trade travel schedules with).
Similar to Dallas' comment, several are very long term friends.
Rare nowadays I ask for a first time date.
It simply is what it is.
Short answer:
I have a personal contact list that dates back to my college days.
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