Who has replied to reference requests?

[Roksana]

I'm also reference friendly and do my absolute best to respond in a timely manner!

I would like to give a special thanks to the ladies who always respond to my reference requests as quickly as possible. You're awesome!

Amy Stone (responds within minutes, even on Christmas Day! You rock!)
VikkiLyn (responds within minutes no matter the time, every time!)
Brittany Love ( my personal #MVP!!)
Jade Rose ( another #MVP)
Hunter Grace
Veronica88 (my better half. Lol!)
AudrinaSA
Vanessa Amor
Coco Bunny Spice
CynSweet
Shannon Shane
Teona Monroe
SweetKelleyK
Lady J

All of these ladies are amazing and ALWAYS respond quickly! Thank you!!

[Angieluv16]

Gentlemen did you know that in this realm not every lady will vouch for you to another lady? Even if she requires that you provide references as part of her screening process? A true fact!

I reached out to 6 providers today starting before 8am, via their preferred method of being contacted, to get a gentleman vouched for and only 1 has responded:
3 of them post ads here and on ECCIE regularly and have glowing reviews.
1 has been burning up her Twitter feed all day, is not Newbie friendly and requires 2 provider references.
1 requires the gentleman to contact her directly before she will give a referral, but still did not reply to my request letting me know. I found out by reading that on her website. And, she is not Newbie friendly and requires 2 provider references.
1 immediately sent an unsolicited text to the gentleman wanting to get together with him. Then she got upset when he declined. AWKWARD!

So think about it guys, it has been 16 hours and only 1 of the 6 ladies has replied. If you visit a lady and are a gentleman, that alone does not guarantee that you will get a reference from her. Even if that same lady required that you be verified by providers that have seen you. This realm is changing, but being vouched for, just like in real life, always holds value. And, I would encourage you to spend time with ladies that will respond to reference requests.

So who did reply? And, promptly via her assistant? The Golden Buzzer goes to Ambree Austin! Ding!Ding!Ding! With golden glitter falling from the sky! Thank you Ambree Austin!

So here is the twist. Ladies please post with the Name(s) of other providers who have replied to your reference requests. Basically, vouch for the ladies who have vouched for gentlemen they have met with!

I'm pretty new, so I've only been used once that I remember. I have reached out around 20 times to many different providers and only about 4 or 6 of them ever responded. It was getting so ridiculous that I had to start a screening method to get around not being able to get into contact with the providers. I'll post who the ladies that responded were. I appreciate you starting this feed! I hope I always get back to you ladies quickly and respectfully.

[Ava In Austin]

Time for some more appreciation to the ladies who responded to my reference requests. Big love to all of you lovely ladies!

Scout Schaffer - Houston

Anya Jewel - FBSM / BDSM - Los Angeles
Jessica Anderson - Los Angeles

Sophia West - Atlanta

Randilyn Rhodes - Upstate NY

Lilly - Tantric & Erotic Massage - Toronto

Holly Davis - Las Vegas
Charlene Love - Las Vegas

[Seductive Selina]

Is there a thread of girls who don't respond? Just curious

[KellyDarlin]

I am reference friendly. If I don't respond to PM, feel free to text me or do both so I can reply quicker.

[CubanAva]

MalloryRay
KalaniReels
Sweetbabybeth
Meetjaderose
Asianlayla


Much love and respect for ya ladies

Xo

[tylialove]

Thank you yes i do references to keep us LADIES safe...
i believe this is "one of the ways" to help keep providers and hobbyist safe

[Annalise2020]

It is a safety concern and those that will not vouch I do not understand why...Think of it this way if you vouch for someone and then in the future you have to reach out they will help you out plus referrals. Ladies do not for a second think that other ladies will not name drop you if you help them out! If you start to not play nice as I call it then it will most likely bite you in the tooth no pun intended. Think of it like a team sport. If you help one person out they help you out. If you start to alienate yourself then eventually you will do just that alienate yourself then you do exactly the opposite if what you were attempting to accomplish by not vouching... I guess I am a bit of a hippy in the sense that I want to help and I expect others to do the same. Not everyone has the same intentions.

[DrSicilian]

Not trying to derail or side swipe this thread-but a question arises-how do the ladies feel about one of their regulars asking for a referral to see somebody else in town? Seeing someone out of state is one thing-but I wonder if the no contact back is because they are a bit pissed? "Why isn't he seeing me?-Well fuck him!" type of thing...perhaps?

[MeetJadeRose]

Not trying to derail or side swipe this thread-but a question arises-how do the ladies feel about one of their regulars asking for a referral to see somebody else in town? Seeing someone out of state is one thing-but I wonder if the no contact back is because they are a bit pissed? "Why isn't he seeing me?-Well fuck him!" type of thing...perhaps?

My personal opinion is— they are entitled to see whoever they want, I don’t own him. Even regulars, I can share lol. If they want to see someone else, great, when they want to see me... great. Have I ever had some pouty or hurt feelings when a longtime regular starts seeing others here and there? Sure, hehe, but that’s simply out of appreciating our connection, typical romanticized conditioning, and a part of being an emotionally in tune person. Not to get too esoteric but I support sexual exploration in general even if it’s not always directly benefiting me, because I believe that showing support and gratitude comes back to benefit us. While I love to have unique “regular” situations where they only see me or we have frequent visits for long stretches of time, overall I believe “your people” will always find you, and stay around as long as they’re meant to. As long as it’s within reasonable timeframe as far as asking for a vouche, I’m totally willing to give it. Now, if it’s someone who saw me once a couple of years ago and is trying to use me as a ref for different girls, that’s different, for safety and business purposes. Maintain at least some regularity out of courtesy if you desire frequent vouches, doesn’t have to be every month. I believe there is more than enough abundance for all of us and we don’t need to try to “hoard” clients, let’s keep supporting each other’s business and safety.

[missi hart]

My personal opinion is— they are entitled to see whoever they want, I don’t own him. Even regulars, I can share lol. If they want to see someone else, great, when they want to see me... great. Have I ever had some pouty or hurt feelings when a longtime regular starts seeing others here and there? Sure, hehe, but that’s simply out of appreciating our connection, typical romanticized conditioning, and a part of being an emotionally in tune person. Not to get too esoteric but I support sexual exploration in general even if it’s not always directly benefiting me, because I believe that showing support and gratitude comes back to benefit us. While I love to have unique “regular” situations where they only see me or we have frequent visits for long stretches of time, overall I believe “your people” will always find you, and stay around as long as they’re meant to. As long as it’s within reasonable timeframe as far as asking for a vouche, I’m totally willing to give it. Now, if it’s someone who saw me once a couple of years ago and is trying to use me as a ref for different girls, that’s different, for safety and business purposes. Maintain at least some regularity out of courtesy if you desire frequent vouches, doesn’t have to be every month. I believe there is more than enough abundance for all of us and we don’t need to try to “hoard” clients, let’s keep supporting each other’s business and safety.

wonderful outlook!

[Wickedone69]

HERE! HERE!
Outstanding statement.

My personal opinion is— they are entitled to see whoever they want, I don’t own him. Even regulars, I can share lol. If they want to see someone else, great, when they want to see me... great. Have I ever had some pouty or hurt feelings when a longtime regular starts seeing others here and there? Sure, hehe, but that’s simply out of appreciating our connection, typical romanticized conditioning, and a part of being an emotionally in tune person. Not to get too esoteric but I support sexual exploration in general even if it’s not always directly benefiting me, because I believe that showing support and gratitude comes back to benefit us. While I love to have unique “regular” situations where they only see me or we have frequent visits for long stretches of time, overall I believe “your people” will always find you, and stay around as long as they’re meant to. As long as it’s within reasonable timeframe as far as asking for a vouche, I’m totally willing to give it. Now, if it’s someone who saw me once a couple of years ago and is trying to use me as a ref for different girls, that’s different, for safety and business purposes. Maintain at least some regularity out of courtesy if you desire frequent vouches, doesn’t have to be every month. I believe there is more than enough abundance for all of us and we don’t need to try to “hoard” clients, let’s keep supporting each other’s business and safety.

[Roksana]

Not trying to derail or side swipe this thread-but a question arises-how do the ladies feel about one of their regulars asking for a referral to see somebody else in town? Seeing someone out of state is one thing-but I wonder if the no contact back is because they are a bit pissed? "Why isn't he seeing me?-Well fuck him!" type of thing...perhaps?

Doesn't bother me in the least! Chocolate is my favorite flavor but it doesn't mean I want it every single time. I might have a taste for butter pecan that day. Doesn't mean I like chocolate any less. And I will be back to chocolate once I've fixed my craving. But that's just how I see it.
Personally, I know what my regulars like and I will actually recommend other girls I think they will enjoy.

[DrSicilian]

thank you ladies !

[britttany_love]

I love to share as I love variety and love the butterflies when you get to meet someone new. We don't own anyone here and they are free to see whom they want. I'm always recommending ladies to clients all the time and helpful when they are searching for something specific. I will always provide references as long as it is within my posted time frame so please be respectful of that.