GREEK

[Slave Guinevere]

OP made a thread in Coed about the hobby. There is a difference in a PSA and annoyance, than being hurt or want to fight.

I will say, if my first contact is to receive a text of "Anna, do you offer greek". I don't know where he saw my ad, I don't know if he missed it. Ill either just send a clipboard with important information with that included, or a simple no.

What the OP was discussing was bombarding and continued persuasion.

And I personally cannot take it up the ass or that ray of sunshine that shoots out of it when I'm face down will be blocked. Many of my lovely admirers will be disappointed :)

Ahhh... We are MAKING PROGRESS... 😈

You are CORRECT... This is a COED THREAD about GREEK and not another thread for you to whine about good intentions, ads that are TOO LONG, clients that are 3 hours late (you should have known that they were not coming when they didn't show at 30 min past...)... And you are a veteran Houston GAL? OK...

FOR A VET...you need A LOT of threads to POUT about MEN that have DONE you wrong and then TURN around two seconds later and say... OH YEAH... I LOVE WHAT I DO!! GIGGLES...LOL 😂

Whatever... You received A LOT of positive FEEDBACK on all of your threads TRYING TO HELP YOU... Because, apparently, after all your years in the #BIZ... You do not know how create an AD, SET BOUNDARIES, OR have a back up plan if a client is more than 30 min late...

I do... Most of the reputable ladies do.. Just saying...

A LOT of reputable LADIES and HOBBYISTS TRIED to give you good advice and you just SHIT on them...which to me was funny and most of us were patient because hey, I'm getting paid, the other girls are getting paid and the guys for darn sure are getting their RODEO ON...😈

So, if Sexxxy Jess needs ONE THREAD TO VENT.... Give the GAL a break and I'm fairly certain that the BRAZILIAN GIRLS here will FILL THE VOID when your ASS IS GONE...❤️🔥

NOONE is irreplaceable in this business... We are ALL a GOOD TIME, IN THE MOMENT, FUCK THE LIFE OUT OF YOU KIND OF GALS...😉😈

So Chill.. Let Jess have her ASSTASTIC MOMENT...🐴

[Anna Nikkole]

I'm sure I'll make another thread soon, busy getting ready for my departure. And Brazilian women are hawttt. Maybe you can mother them. I like coed for many different threads, and I'll continue to be me always and turn heads in every city I go to. Sexy Jess doesn't need to turn her phone off, or off subject water therapy. (I may try it one day still). I think she has a very good hobby thread with a great coed discussion point. And everyone is replaceable. The hobby was here before we were born. Will always be.

I'll always be "team real woman". And I'll always be grateful for my blessings. I'll always be a happy person with regular issues. I hope you have a beautiful and successful weekend, you and Jess are beautiful women and you both deserve great treatment.

I don't come up with a solution, I allow venting and offer a shoulder. I am also in hopes that some see where they can cross the line.

I'm not here to be hurt or fight. To much energy. Much less energy to show support. And if you can come up with a coed discussion I'll respectfully give my opinion. This board is absolutely what that is for. We don't need mother's or solutions many times, just understanding. God bless you Jess and SG.

[CynSweet]

Still being a little ray of SUNSHINE... Eh Nikkole? Nice!!

I actually DO like to take it UP the ASS but hey, I've been known to put on a STRAP ON when NEEDED... But yeah... This thread wasn't about you, it was about Sexxxy Jess, some annoying ass questions, her issues and how no AMOUNT OF VASELINE was going to get her in the MOOD to give up that DELICIOUS ASS!!🔥

Respect is an interesting concept... It works both ways... The only thing this thread is missing is AN ICE CUBE...😎

+1000000. This is outstanding! Lmao. Thank you beautiful Slave Guinevere! I always love reading your responses on the boards!!
Rational thinking is definitely a thing. Bottom line, questions come with the territory. Love it or leave it. The OP's signature definitely does set up for implications. I'd definitely consider this from all angles prior to attack educating on the board. There's too much to be said for outside looking in.

[Mokoa]

The topic of this thread is GREEK.

Please take the personal stuff private and the other topics elsewhere.

[SexySammy]

Someone please take pity on me and point out what exactly is offensive in my signature. If true, it shall be corrected.

I think it's the insinuation of "zero sperm count", which is a lot of guys excuse for BBFS.

But back to ass play and between all the theatrics, I believe the point of this post was when a lady says NO it means NO. Not try harder or keep asking. We also need to remember to be more straight forward and not grant these types of guys with any reason as to why we say NO. The minute you start giving them other responses like "I only do it with my boyfriend" or "I'll let you do it if I can do it to you", leads them to believe there's a chance. Just tell them NO and if they continue asking, block them. Simple as that. Don't entertain the BS or let it get your panties in a bunch.

[Tx-gentleman]

I think a lot of men (& people in general) have the "It never hurts to ask" mentality. Which may be true in some situations but in this hobby I can 100% see how it can be offensive/disrespectful.
Another insight (not an excuse for bad behavior) is the mentality "people will do anything for money". Which is shitty outlook on the world around you.
You can never ever buy respect, it's earned.
It also should be a common courtesy to respect everyone until their actions make you loose respect.
Courtesy and manners go a long way in life.
"Be cool Mutherfucker" - Samuel L Jackson

[Agent220]

I'd rather have an upfront notice to know what is and is not on the menu. This way it saves everyone time.

Asking someone to do something that is on their NO list makes you an Hole de A.

[Aramis]

I'd rather have an upfront notice to know what is and is not on the menu. This way it saves everyone time.

Asking someone to do something that is on their NO list makes you an Hole de A.

Sammy’s and this comment is exactly it and that should be it. If it says no in the menu, then that’s it. No. I don’t believe a lady should have to give a reason as to why not. It’s no and that’s it, don’t be an ass, move on. Find someone else who is willing.

[baja22]

I think a lot of men (& people in general) have the "It never hurts to ask" mentality. Which may be true in some situations but in this hobby I can 100% see how it can be offensive/disrespectful.
Another insight (not an excuse for bad behavior) is the mentality "people will do anything for money". Which is shitty outlook on the world around you.
You can never ever buy respect, it's earned.
It also should be a common courtesy to respect everyone until their actions make you loose respect.
Courtesy and manners go a long way in life.
"Be cool Mutherfucker" - Samuel L Jackson

100% accurate. That's just how men are. Not saying it's right, just is, and some of that can be from their own experiences. So providers, just expect it from some guys, and if he keeps pestering you after the first NO, block him.

[Sir Hardin Thicke]

This sure has been an entertaining thread.

Guys still asking for menu items not listed, Guys pushing boundaries.

It's easy to blame guys for asking for things not on an advertised menu, but the guys are not really to blame for this, and neither are the ladies. The one to blame is In N Out Burgers and all of their secret menu options that have conditioned us to ask for things we do not see in writing. Think about it. That burger chain has been doing these secret menu items for 75 years! No wonder my generation and those preceding it are conditioned to ask for things that are not advertised. I'm ready to start a campaign to tell In N Out Burgers, and any other joint out there, to refrain from offering secret menu items as it is really taking a toll on us in the hobby.

[knottyman]

It's easy to blame guys for asking for things not on an advertised menu, but the guys are not really to blame for this, and neither are the ladies. The one to blame is In N Out Burgers and all of their secret menu options that have conditioned us to ask for things we do not see in writing. Think about it. That burger chain has been doing these secret menu items for 75 years! No wonder my generation and those preceding it are conditioned to ask for things that are not advertised. I'm ready to start a campaign to tell In N Out Burgers, and any other joint out there, to refrain from offering secret menu items as it is really taking a toll on us in the hobby.

Holy shit!!
Wonder if In- n Out serves porndogs, ya know. 2 weiners in 1 bun.

[Slave Guinevere]

It's easy to blame guys for asking for things not on an advertised menu, but the guys are not really to blame for this, and neither are the ladies. The one to blame is In N Out Burgers and all of their secret menu options that have conditioned us to ask for things we do not see in writing. Think about it. That burger chain has been doing these secret menu items for 75 years! No wonder my generation and those preceding it are conditioned to ask for things that are not advertised. I'm ready to start a campaign to tell In N Out Burgers, and any other joint out there, to refrain from offering secret menu items as it is really taking a toll on us in the hobby.

Sigh...

Bear in the woods... Most females nowadays would rather have a bear in the campground then a man... I am betting that the BEAR would not argue there is a secret menu or push boundaries... Think what you are saying for a minute and think of the value that you have for your body... How many times should you have to say NO in order to be heard?

Sexxxy Jess has put in her sig line that she DOES NOT want to participate in this activity so yes, we can blame guys for pushing boundaries... No means no...

We want to have fun in this world, just as much as you guys do and when we have to keep repeating ourselves over and over, it makes us feel uncomfortable... And frankly, let's be honest, do you think the IOP is going to be as good if the lass, or any lass, is worried that once she is in a vulnerable position and you might flip the switch...go from A TO B...without her consent?

If a guy can't take NO VERBALLY then many times he will not in person... Once, you are naked,
It is not that hard to force someone into GREEK and say that "OOOPS, I SLIPPED... But, I was IN & OUT..."🤦*♀️ 🤨

And if, the girl calls the guy out it becomes a HE SAID SHE SAID... And a lot of girls are just not going to post about it...

SOOOOO YEAH... Let's just stick with FOLLOWING HER RULES... NO MEANS NO...

I can easily point to numerous reviews where guys say to shut her up by RAM A DICK IN HER MOUTH AND SHUT HER UP...

I like to read those comments...it is really helpful for me to screen which men are safe to see...but, I read really fast but, should I have to? Why not just be nice to the ladies..
If you want a GFE lady....See one
If you want a PSE lady...see one
If you want a massage gal...see one of those...
And if they do all 3, or more, that is even better, but go at their pace, let's just not scare them off, especially not the new ladies...or the young ones, who are just learning...

But DO NOT force a gal to do something that she isn't comfortable with...let her grow into our world so, that she learns to like different things...or wants to try new things on her own time frame...that is what happened with me...kind and loving experienced hobbyists slowly helped me, when I started asking about different things..it will make all the difference in the world with our new young ladies... and we want these beautiful new ladies to stick around...❤️🤗

[SexySammy]

OP made a thread in Coed about the hobby. There is a difference in a PSA and annoyance, than being hurt or want to fight.

I will say, if my first contact is to receive a text of "Anna, do you offer greek". I don't know where he saw my ad, I don't know if he missed it. Ill either just send a clipboard with important information with that included, or a simple no.

What the OP was discussing was bombarding and continued persuasion.

And I personally cannot take it up the ass or that ray of sunshine that shoots out of it when I'm face down will be blocked. Many of my lovely admirers will be disappointed :)

It's easy to blame guys for asking for things not on an advertised menu, but the guys are not really to blame for this, and neither are the ladies. The one to blame is In N Out Burgers and all of their secret menu options that have conditioned us to ask for things we do not see in writing. Think about it. That burger chain has been doing these secret menu items for 75 years! No wonder my generation and those preceding it are conditioned to ask for things that are not advertised. I'm ready to start a campaign to tell In N Out Burgers, and any other joint out there, to refrain from offering secret menu items as it is really taking a toll on us in the hobby.

The guys are very much to blame. I'm truly hoping this was a sarcastic comment and you don't truly think like this. Its giving "video games are teaching kids to be violent". People are more than capable of discerning when it is and not ok to ask about "off menu items", as this isn't a restaurant and far from it.

[Transylvania Count]

I'll summarize my points, and hopefully that'll get them across more effectively.

Ranting here will do nothing. It won't educate those who don't care to be educated. Those who care to be educated already understand that "no means no." A more effective solution is to block the offender and post about the experience in the ladies' forum, so others are warned.

We can go on unhinged rants about what should be, or we can learn to cope with what is. The hobby has been, is and will remain the same.

For those of you who care to read about an example of ineffective communication, read on. I grew up on the first floor of an apartment building. The hallway is enclosed because the winters are harsh in Transylvania. Even cars are kept in garages because of the cold weather. The hallway has two doors: one at the front which most people used, and one at the back used by the tenants to get to the detached garages behind that apartment building. One of the tenants who lived on the fifth floor never remembered to shut the door behind him and make sure it locks. Hobos would sneak into the hallway to spend the night and would leave behind trash and excrement. For those living on the top floors, this didn't matter at all. But for those of us living on the first floor, it mattered. My father (who was a teacher and absolutely should have known better) thought that the best way to handle it would be to yell at the tenant about shutting the door. It went about as well as you would expect. Nothing changed. My father started loudly slamming the door every time he found it open. We heard it and it was supremely annoying, but likely nobody above the second floor heard more than a muffled thud. The tenant on the fifth floor likely heard nothing and couldn't care less about it. No matter how many times my mother and us kids tried to convince my father that what he was doing was ineffective, he wouldn't listen. "See, the door was locked today! It's working!" (hint, hint). He died about ten years ago convinced his useless act of loudly slamming that door made a difference. In the end, the effective solution is a badge system on a door that automatically shuts and locks. So simple!

[knottyman]

I'll summarize my points, and hopefully that'll get them across more effectively.

Ranting here will do nothing. It won't educate those who don't care to be educated. Those who care to be educated already understand that "no means no." A more effective solution is to block the offender and post about the experience in the ladies' forum, so others are warned.

We can go on unhinged rants about what should be, or we can learn to cope with what is. The hobby has been, is and will remain the same.

For those of you who care to read about an example of ineffective communication, read on. I grew up on the first floor of an apartment building. The hallway is enclosed because the winters are harsh in Transylvania. Even cars are kept in garages because of the cold weather. The hallway has two doors: one at the front which most people used, and one at the back used by the tenants to get to the detached garages behind that apartment building. One of the tenants who lived on the fifth floor never remembered to shut the door behind him and make sure it locks. Hobos would sneak into the hallway to spend the night and would leave behind trash and excrement. For those living on the top floors, this didn't matter at all. But for those of us living on the first floor, it mattered. My father (who was a teacher and absolutely should have known better) thought that the best way to handle it would be to yell at the tenant about shutting the door. It went about as well as you would expect. Nothing changed. My father started loudly slamming the door every time he found it open. We heard it and it was supremely annoying, but likely nobody above the second floor heard more than a muffled thud. The tenant on the fifth floor likely heard nothing and couldn't care less about it. No matter how many times my mother and us kids tried to convince my father that what he was doing was ineffective, he wouldn't listen. "See, the door was locked today! It's working!" (hint, hint). He died about ten years ago convinced his useless act of loudly slamming that door made a difference. In the end, the effective solution is a badge system on a door that automatically shuts and locks. So simple!

While we're on the subject of posting long winded useless shit.
Most don't know I was in prison.
I walked in on my wife and her lover, and in a rage and I "unalived" them both.
I got 2 life sentences. But the warden found out i was good with numbers and had me help him do his taxes. After a while , I was doing them for all the guards as well as cooking the books for the warden.
All the while I was digging a hole out of my cell using a tiny hammer while disguising it with a poster.
I eventually escaped thru that hole crawling a 1/4 of mile thru piss and shit. And now have a boat building business in Zehuatinejo, Mexico.
I only cum to Texas to hobby.