How explicit and where?

[Transylvania Count]

I usually wait until the verification process is complete and then ask the lady for her preferred medium for specific questions. Some ladies are comfortable through text, others prefer email. Some try to be coy with "Why don't you book an appointment and see?" which is an immediate red flag from me and will never result in a booking. Ideally, I book appointments with ladies with adds that answer all of my questions so I don't have to waste time searching for answers.