What?s the best screening for lady?s

[Toedaddy]

Hello everyone, I?ve been in the hobby for years now and try to keep to myself but I have a question that I need help with. This is open to the ladies and gentlemen because I?m curious what works best for both. What is the best screening method? P411, verified on oh2 or having 3 references? Obviously having all three would be ideal but if I had to have one which is best? Thank you

[The Water Company ~]

if i have to pick only one resource, id pick p411. id lose the references forever and keep the sewing and knitting between us.

[Kara Nicole]

I agree with TWC p411 if I had to choose, but some of us have other methods to screening as well.

[Ben Rhimene]

I met TWC via OH2, but it has been p411 since...

[CKJAmore]

Since you said this question is open to gentlemen too, I?ll venture.

P411 hand down, from what I hear from the ladies. Verified Status on OH2, being a Premium Member on ECCIE, being on PacePro, all add to the trust. Nothing can replace the good old screening with 2-3 providers that a guy has recently seen.

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The following might give an indication of what works on the ladies side, so that we, men can adapt to these:

1. I got my first break on p411. I heard of it on a podcast by a Provider girl out of Canada. After I saw a few (my first 3 okays were the hardest), I was all good. So Ladies probably trust P411 the most.

2. I have head they also cross check a guys number with Mr. Number. Apparently, no comments is good, one or two positive comments are really appealing, from what I hear.

3. Then there is the companion forums. I am sure there is a lot of discussion about some guys, especially the ones with Alerts.

4. Also, ladies can get a good sense of a guy from the forum history and the reviews?here and on ECCIE/TER.

5. Some ladies bank on proactive referrals from other provider friends who have seen a guy and like him enough to recommend him to them.

6. Finally there are things like TER Whitelist, Privatedelights provider responses to a review blurb etc.
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Ladies, don?t flame me for taking the liberty to write about the process. While this might not be fully accurate, this is what I heard from several provider friends of mine.

[Anna Nikkole]

P411 is my first one. 2nd one is Private Delights, 3rd one is TER.

Outside of building up those 3, we have the power, so to have the control in your own hands, get on something foolproof.

[Mokoa]

Frankly, asking a companion to publicly divulge how they screen clients is rude. That is proprietary information and should be closely guarded.

[Kara Nicole]

I agree men should not be asking how we screen unless you’re wanting to meet us

[The Water Company ~]

apologies, my lens may be a lil foggy.
op, were you asking .providers. and the gentlemen how we screen or did you mean, how to better utilize the well known screening resources and options youve listed that most all of us providers have mentioned in our bio, ads, sig line, website etc.

for my understanding, im open for correction, in case i prematurely commented earlier. thanks

[NordicJag]

apologies, my lens may be a lil foggy.
op, were you asking .providers. and the gentlemen how we screen or did you mean, how to better utilize the well known screening resources and options youve listed that most all of us providers have mentioned in our bio, ads, sig line, website etc.

for my understanding, im open for correction, in case i prematurely commented earlier. thanks

Your post got me to go back and reread the OP. It seems like he is asking what is better for him to have for screening purposes. The 3 things that he listed was P411, OH2 Verified, and 3 references.

As for myself, I have all three, but I almost always use P411.

[Ben Rhimene]

It seems like he is asking what is better for him to have for screening purposes. The 3 things that he listed was P411, OH2 Verified, and 3 references.

As for myself, I have all three, but I almost always use P411.

That's how I read it. Bottom line, not everyone has p411 or is OK with OH2 Verified status. Best to maintain all 3, but I am aware of ladies who won't accept any of the above.

It just depends on who you want to meet and how badly...

[Shadueblaque]

That's how I read it. Bottom line, not everyone has p411 or is OK with OH2 Verified status. Best to maintain all 3, but I am aware of ladies who won't accept any of the above.

It just depends on who you want to meet and how badly...

Yep can confirm, maintain all three is the best. Even though I?m not verified on OH2 (yet). Being active helps, having references helps for sure, P411 when I got it, it provided me the ability to speak to few more lovely women I wanted to see.

[DORad]

Is if a lady does not use any of the above, what else is there? Linked In? Photo pf my ID? I'm not so sure I would do that. Face Time Video Chat? Surely not calling my employer.

That's how I read it. Bottom line, not everyone has p411 or is OK with OH2 Verified status. Best to maintain all 3, but I am aware of ladies who won't accept any of the above.

It just depends on who you want to meet and how badly...

[Kara Nicole]

^^^ Yes I have my requirements on my bio things I need to get you screened, but I never divulge would I use screen? Those are two totally different things.