How to Contact an Escort Template :)

[Ava In Austin]

This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if need additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.

[Austin Ellen]

Good stuff gentlemen. Thank you for posting this Ava.

This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if need additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.

[britttany_love]

This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if need additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.

Thank you Ava this is exactly how I like to be contacted. If guys would follow these examples screening would be so much easy and quicker and the on to the fun. Nothing worse than 10 or so back and forth messages because they guy csnt send it all together. After a few messages of it's not all included I just lose interest.

[NikkiGhost]

This really is helpful, a month ago I had never screened but having a recent scare changed all of that. I really do appreciate the ladies in the hobby that share stuff like this.

[SweetArielRae]

Now only if guys could actually read and follow such detailed requests. Thumbs up to the ones that actually know how to approach ladies in this line of work. But we all know this will never happened. You have the ones that care to read and follow directions and then you have the ones that don’t think with the right head.

[DragonX]

Seems like this could be made a sticky? Good info and makes sense.
DragonX

[3daygetaway]

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

[DragonX]

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

Well put!!!!
DragonX

[Chencho]

Been using this guideline since the good old ASPD days. It really helps :)

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Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

Ditto!

[Daniel Larusso]

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

Bravo!

[Ava In Austin]

Good exchange and I liked hearing the male point of view of being on the receiving end of various replies from providers. It is something for the ladies to take into consideration.

When I searched the Internet, I found plenty of “what to expect,” “code of conduct” and “what not to say or do” with an escort. I did not find a template for initiating contact. And, that is the reason I started the thread in a forum that even non-members (gentlemen without experience) can read.

[mathguy]

Ava, this was a good idea and a nice thread with a very reasonable template imho. Nice job there.

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

While I totally agree with the ladies about the horrible communication certain men can have (read my posts and you will know that I'm not joking about that) I also completely understand 3day's point here. This does happen a lot. And as a man on the receiving end there is nothing worse than a bitchy ass or cold replying woman. The advertisement sometimes comes across like you are getting a brand new 2019 BMW 7 Series with all the bells and whistles but then you find out you are working with a used car salesman who's actually trying to pitch you a 99 Ford Fiesta. It goes something like this: "yes, sir, a totally awesome, best deal in town, '99 fiesta, manual trans that chokes in 3rd gear (but just for a second then it's the smoothest ride you will ever know!), manual doors/locks, A/C is broken but the heater works better than anything on the market, oh and did I mention it's a convertible! Don't mind the huge tear in the fabric top just to the right of your head... you will barely get wet if it's raining... promise. And boy will you love this puppy on sunny days with your top down! Whatcha think? We got a deal? <shit eating grin>".

LOL. Okay I was being funny on purpose. I thought some might get a laugh out of that but seriously a good bit of women will just have this really cold replying style. Or they don't reply at all. A man doesn't want it to seem like a business transaction. Yes, it is a business transaction. Not unlike many other things in life. It's just a really direct form of it. But most decent guys, even those who are just horny and wanna get off, don't typically want a really business like attitude.

Obviously as you get to know someone and visit them more often the business part can be dropped to a huge degree. Both sides should be polite. The beginning is the most awkward. Men be polite. Women be polite. Simple.

-mg

[The Infamous One]

Can we make this a sticky?! I’d like to add that I usually ask the gentleman if he has any suggestions or special requests for our time together. Non explicit & pg13 talk. I will ghost you if you are explicit or mention/ask what xyv for $$$. Nope Nope Nope. But that’s just me. My regs... now that’s a bit different, but I know them to a T and they know me and my preference for communication. This is just my 2 pennies worth!

[dookiexp]

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

Well fucking said! We are all busy here! Lets try and make the fun actually fun including the communication.

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

Ava, I hope you don’t consider this a highjack, but I would like to propose a script for the ladies when they must cancel an appointment. Above all, please communicate. Nothing is more frustrating than ncns. That said, here is what I propose.

“Hi sweetheart. I’m sorry but I must cancel our appointment (no excuses necessary). Can we meet later today or tomorrow?”

Short and sweet. An offer of a discounted rate would be greatly appreciated but not necessary.

Managing my expectations is an important part of your TCB skills.

I hope you’re all having a wonderful weekend.