Excellent explanation. I applaud you on your honesty.

Most reasonable guys don?t expect an immediate response. If we haven?t set a date, and the lady goes silent for awhile (particularly one who we know isn?t doing this full time), we assume you?re busy with life and won?t sweat it. Get back when you can.

Once a date is set the expectation is of course higher. If you know you have to cancel, tell us as soon as you can. Check in with us the morning of the meeting confirming the time. Ask the guy to confirm when he?s heading your way. Any other miscellaneous chit chat before the session is totally at your discretion and shouldn?t be expected.

Guys whose communication needs are any more that that are probably not good fits for you and you can consider it part of your screening process if they get upset that you aren?t constantly at their beck and call.

Best of luck. Glad to have you in Fort Worth.