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    I yearn for the days of CL. I scored so many young ladies that just needed extra cash and were willing to meet on a regular basis. When they shut down it seemed like some moved on to BP. Now that's gone too. Listcrawler just seems so nasty and are mostly fake or skanky. I'm looking at secret benefits and seeking arrangements but so many profiles appear to be fake. Are either SA or SB worth it. Are there any sites like CL around? I'd appreciate any info from experienced gents here. Feel free to pm me if you don't want to post info for all to see. Thanks in advance.

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    I’ve been doing sugaring the past couple of years. Seeking is more cost efficient than Secret Benefits. With Seeking you pay one price per month for unlimited messaging. Secret uses tokens for opening messages and viewing private pics. Both have their share of pic collectors, fake ads and pros. You just have to learn how to spot them.

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    i swear the ladies had a similar topic. Those sites have the WORST vibe and seem to be more for guys looking for brok college girls or spanish or white girls with surgery who or mare stripper vibe then a actual sugar baby which is more girl next door, outings, long arrangements. soooo they really just want providers who will do more for less and multiple times a week
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23 View Post
    i swear the ladies had a similar topic. Those sites have the WORST vibe and seem to be more for guys looking for brok college girls or spanish or white girls with surgery who or mare stripper vibe then a actual sugar baby which is more girl next door, outings, long arrangements. soooo they really just want providers who will do more for less and multiple times a week
    "Broke college girls" is music to a hobbyist's ears!

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    Quote Originally Posted by baja22 View Post
    "Broke college girls" is music to a hobbyist's ears!
    Lol people who see/look for SBs aren't hobbyist, they're "sugar daddies" or "Splenda daddies" for those who don't really have the funds or want to be cheap. But this is skirting on the forbidden topic of discussing what providers chose to charge at this point.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SexySammy View Post
    Lol people who see/look for SBs aren't hobbyist, they're "sugar daddies" or "Splenda daddies" for those who don't really have the funds or want to be cheap. But this is skirting on the forbidden topic of discussing what providers chose to charge at this point.
    Splenda just means you are not spending $750ppm or 3k per month base allowance. Sugar Daddies spend more, but expect more. Sugar dating is a relationship first and foremost. I get to know my SBs. I know all about them as the know about me. It is not a hook up surface level interaction.

    Yes, there is some crossover with Pro SBs and Escorts trying to get clients off of Seeking. There are so many escorts from this site I see on Seeking or Secret B.

    However, escorts are so easy to spot and avoid. Yall use love and honey and sweetie too soon. Red flag right off the bat. Yall use your provider number. I run all pics and numbers first. To avoid scams and fake SBs. Also, providers trying to be SB are clock watching. No real SB is a '2 hour date'. What Providers charge for one to two hours. I see my SB for 3-5 hours.

    Now, that is not to say a Provider cannot be an sugar baby. It is just a big difference in the dynamic. Cant bring too many Provider rules into sugaring.

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    Also, I will add this. I cannot vouch for any other 'SDs' out there. But I am looking for real connection and chemistry with my SBs. I typically just see one at a time, once week or 3 times a month. I am not there to trick or fool anyone. I am not there because they are 'cheaper' than an Escort. I sugar because I enjoy providing for single women who need a boost in life. My SBs have full time jobs and sugar on the side for fun and $$.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adonisman View Post
    Splenda just means you are not spending $750ppm or 3k per month base allowance. Sugar Daddies spend more, but expect more. Sugar dating is a relationship first and foremost. I get to know my SBs. I know all about them as the know about me. It is not a hook up surface level interaction.

    Yes, there is some crossover with Pro SBs and Escorts trying to get clients off of Seeking. There are so many escorts from this site I see on Seeking or Secret B.

    However, escorts are so easy to spot and avoid. Yall use love and honey and sweetie too soon. Red flag right off the bat. Yall use your provider number. I run all pics and numbers first. To avoid scams and fake SBs. Also, providers trying to be SB are clock watching. No real SB is a '2 hour date'. What Providers charge for one to two hours. I see my SB for 3-5 hours.

    Now, that is not to say a Provider cannot be an sugar baby. It is just a big difference in the dynamic. Cant bring too many Provider rules into sugaring.
    I was just cracking a joke but again, talking about rates and what providers choose to charge is a forbidden topic I'm pretty sure??

    Different strokes for different folks, I don't charge 750/visit so that doesn't pertain to me. But someone offering me 200/week for 3 1hr visits BBFS is an insult and it's funny when said person turns around and denies trying to "negotiate" prices with providers and act like the perfect hobbyist.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Adonisman View Post
    Splenda just means you are not spending $750ppm or 3k per month base allowance. Sugar Daddies spend more, but expect more. Sugar dating is a relationship first and foremost. I get to know my SBs. I know all about them as the know about me. It is not a hook up surface level interaction.

    Yes, there is some crossover with Pro SBs and Escorts trying to get clients off of Seeking. There are so many escorts from this site I see on Seeking or Secret B.

    However, escorts are so easy to spot and avoid. Yall use love and honey and sweetie too soon. Red flag right off the bat. Yall use your provider number. I run all pics and numbers first. To avoid scams and fake SBs. Also, providers trying to be SB are clock watching. No real SB is a '2 hour date'. What Providers charge for one to two hours. I see my SB for 3-5 hours.

    Now, that is not to say a Provider cannot be an sugar baby. It is just a big difference in the dynamic. Cant bring too many Provider rules into sugaring.
    Spot on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by baja22 View Post
    "Broke college girls" is music to a hobbyist's ears!
    lol i hink maybe if ur bad at sex loool if you want the good stuff its not coming from broke college girls lol i always say a man who doesnt have a regular girl hasnt found her yet and has his toes in the wrong pool. if youve seen x amount of providers and non stick as a regular u have to ask if youre looking for what you like and what you want or what porn and media has said you want?

    most girls avod seeking like the plague because its just weird men with daughter fetishes over anything i also know alot of girls who go with the highpaying guys share rosters and i used to be in some austin fb sugar baby group and left cause i was horrified at not only the amount of bare but the amount of STD those girls got from SD's on that site because they convince young inexperienced girls that theyre exclusive and not seeing anyone else (idk HOWWW tho rofl) and they be doing all the bare then be in tears on websites like reddit and facebook when their health is compromised also check out info on P4

    liek some of yall are not in the right corners of the internet to see these horror stories and i wish yall were because the stories ive readdddd HORROR LEVEL and always a guy they were mid level involved with so the trust was there unfortunatly

    SD's will legit put ur sexual health at risk if a girl isnt careful or going for the lies
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23 View Post
    lol i hink maybe if ur bad at sex loool if you want the good stuff its not coming from broke college girls lol i always say a man who doesnt have a regular girl hasnt found her yet and has his toes in the wrong pool. if youve seen x amount of providers and non stick as a regular u have to ask if youre looking for what you like and what you want or what porn and media has said you want?

    most girls avod seeking like the plague because its just weird men with daughter fetishes over anything i also know alot of girls who go with the highpaying guys share rosters and i used to be in some austin fb sugar baby group and left cause i was horrified at not only the amount of bare but the amount of STD those girls got from SD's on that site because they convince young inexperienced girls that theyre exclusive and not seeing anyone else (idk HOWWW tho rofl) and they be doing all the bare then be in tears on websites like reddit and facebook when their health is compromised also check out info on P4

    liek some of yall are not in the right corners of the internet to see these horror stories and i wish yall were because the stories ive readdddd HORROR LEVEL and always a guy they were mid level involved with so the trust was there unfortunatly

    SD's will legit put ur sexual health at risk if a girl isnt careful or going for the lies
    The last thing I worry about when paying for it is whether I'm good or bad at sex. I do worry whether SHE is good or bad at it, however. The only woman I have to impress in bed is my SO, that's it. And news flash, most men are attracted to younger women. It's not good or bad, just is. Do you think all these male celebrities who snag gorgeous women 20 or 30 years younger all have daughter fetishes? And don't think college girls have no idea what they're doing in bed. Pros are prone to GPS. If I had a dollar for every time I heard "I give the best BJs". Some of the best BJs I ever got were from women who didn't even realize how good they were. They weren't pros, they were just taught well by a previous bf. So, no, pros don't have the marker cornered on good sex.

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    I have to tell you..I don’t worry about them , if a guy some medourke service… and doesn’t care … whom they see because it is so inexpensive to see a sugar baby !

    IF A GUY WANTS QUALITY…. HIGHLY UNLIKELY THAT… YOU WILL FIND A SUGAR BABY WITH…THAT !!!
    WHOM IS ANYTHING LIKE THE PHEONOMANAL SERVICE OF A PROVIDER WHOM HAS 40 TO 100 + PLUS REVIEWS

    LIKE MYSELF .. HAVE 100 REVIEWS BETWEEN OURHOME2 & ECCIE … AND SURE THERE PLENTY MORE PROVIDERS OUT THERE LIKE MYSELF.

    THEY ARE OUT THERE… !
    I disagree 100% with this statement. You are just flat out wrong and or ignorant of how real sugar dating works. That is just it, we do not want a girl with 100 reviews. We want a real person who likes dating older men for sugar. And yes, if you use your Escort Hourly, sugaring is much cheaper. But again, you are ignorant to how real sugaring works.

    The SBs I see must be attracted to me sexually and physically. They need to fell safe, secure, and provided for. They need chemistry and connection before moving to intimacy. That is not what a Provider needs or even cares for. Escorts only care about the client passing screening. And maybe a few other things.

    And yes, I see SBs so I do not have to wear a condom. I am tested before, during and after each SB I see long term.

    And no, you do not need to worry about SBs taking your clients away. Guys who see Escorts full time, do not typically have the time nor patience to get an SB. Again two completely separate things. Escorts are not SBs and SBs are not Escorts.

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    I will add this too.

    With SBs I am not looking for an itemized menu for sex. It is more about chemistry and connection,.

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    Quote Originally Posted by baja22 View Post
    The last thing I worry about when paying for it is whether I'm good or bad at sex. I do worry whether SHE is good or bad at it, however. The only woman I have to impress in bed is my SO, that's it. And news flash, most men are attracted to younger women. It's not good or bad, just is. Do you think all these male celebrities who snag gorgeous women 20 or 30 years younger all have daughter fetishes? And don't think college girls have no idea what they're doing in bed. Pros are prone to GPS. If I had a dollar for every time I heard "I give the best BJs". Some of the best BJs I ever got were from women who didn't even realize how good they were. They weren't pros, they were just taught well by a previous bf. So, no, pros don't have the marker cornered on good sex.
    lol sir most men are insecure there i fixed it for you ; ) providers 30-40 clear insane amounts most girls in there 20s cannot fathom lol yall take the 2$ and apply it to all women under 30 like babyyyy most providrs 30+ will tell you the truth ahaha
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    Quote Originally Posted by nickjaguar View Post
    I yearn for the days of CL. I scored so many young ladies that just needed extra cash and were willing to meet on a regular basis. When they shut down it seemed like some moved on to BP. Now that's gone too. Listcrawler just seems so nasty and are mostly fake or skanky. I'm looking at secret benefits and seeking arrangements but so many profiles appear to be fake. Are either SA or SB worth it. Are there any sites like CL around? I'd appreciate any info from experienced gents here. Feel free to pm me if you don't want to post info for all to see. Thanks in advance.
    I, too, miss the CL days. Zero screening, short notice usually the norm. You call, chat for a minute and you're on your way. I was shocked how many were young and cute. You should check out seeking. Most are down for PPM and not an allowance. They ain't cheap, but there's literally no clockwatching because they don't consider themselves providers.

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