Sexless Marriages

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

Interesting article. Surprised that the number was so high. Count me among the 47%. The fine women here help me. Bless you all.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...less-marriages

[Boris69bb]

Another on in that 47%.

[knottyman]

My ex wife was in a sexless marriage.
That's why she's my EX wife!

[scerpio]

I'm hobbying because of this phenomenon.
I'm just outsourcing the thing that the wife doesn't want to do.

[SexySammy]

I love my married men. No drama because they don't need it. Most of them don't ask for BBFS either and I don't have to worry about them catching feelings or falling in love. Just fun and then send you home happily drained and satisfied.

[Transylvania Count]

I'm hobbying because of this phenomenon.
I'm just outsourcing the thing that the wife doesn't want to do.

^^^ This. Also, variety is the spice of life. I look at hobbying as my reward for working hard, and a welcome break from the mundane.

[Adonisman]

I have never married. I am not the marrying type of person. Almost all the SBs I date tell me I am smart for not marrying and having kids. (I tend to date the single mom SBs)

I have been through enough divorces with friends and family to know its not worth getting married anymore. Unless you are religious or want kids. I do not see any benefit to men. All the laws favor women in Family Court.

Now back on topic. It must suck to be married and your partner not want to have sex anymore

[baja22]

^^^ This. Also, variety is the spice of life. I look at hobbying as my reward for working hard, and a welcome break from the mundane.

Not to mention having sex with someone 20 to 30 years younger than the SO.

[Transylvania Count]

I have been through enough divorces with friends and family to know its not worth getting married anymore. Unless you are religious or want kids. I do not see any benefit to men. All the laws favor women in Family Court.

I'm not religious and I do not have kids. But I was fortunate enough to find a great partner. I married her for her intelligence, not her looks. One can rent 'looks' anytime. I pity the fools who married for looks, men or women. Sure, it makes a great Hollywood movie, but it rarely works out long term.

A great marriage is hard work, on a daily basis. But the rewards far outweigh the effort. It may sound cheesy, but my wife is my best friend. She loves me enough to understand that me being in the hobby is not about her failing. It is about making me happy. And it makes her happy that it makes me happy.

Now back on topic. It must suck to be married and your partner not want to have sex anymore

My in-laws have a sexless marriage, mainly because my father-in-law is the biggest asshole I have ever met. He would get banned and blacklisted from the hobby on the first day. They argue constantly, and I have never seen him treat his wife with kindness and respect. They argued on my wedding day, the day their only daughter was getting married. They couldn't set aside their differences for one hour and be civil during the wedding ceremony. She stays with the asshole because she cannot provide for herself. But she won't even let him touch her. As you may imagine, coming from a stable family where my parents never shouted at each other, I had a lot of reeducation to do to fix my wife's behavior. But all in all, I do not regret getting married.

[F117]

Excuse me, but isn;t the definition of marriage include, "No sex for you!"?

[SexySammy]

Excuse me, but isn;t the definition of marriage include, "No sex for you!"?

Lmao once you add in all the "family life" responsibilities sex goes out the window. That's why when you're dating the sex is always phenomenal but the second there's a ring on the finger, it goes out the window lol