What's the current meta for incalls on how to present/leave donation?

[ChevyGuy]

I read providers don't like envelopes, how about a greeting card with no envelope, with bills slightly sticking out? Just leave on any table/furniture upon entry?

Its probably obvious from a question, but im new

[Kara Nicole]

Just leave bills in view, no greeting card necessary. That’s how I’d want my donations.

[JessieJane]

I have had it all kinda ways. Most gents I see from agencies & P411 use envelopes. I don't mind either way. As long as it is in plain view when I arrive. Whatever method makes the gent comfortable. It takes the awkwardness of me having to ask for my donation when I arrive, which is annoying when seeing experienced gents.

[Universal]

Great Question Sir
I don't like sealed envelopes, fan out the money so it can be counted
with a mere glance.
Please don't hand me the money, just casually put it down
on the side table. Don't make a big announcement.
Don't ask, how much?
Acting like a cop is a turn off!!!
Some men don't like the counting even though it's just out of habit &
they think it's some kind of insult.
Money can stick together with new bills, and fake bills have been known to circulate,
don't take it personally. Mistakes happen.
I don't hide the money or put it away either.

[NordicJag]

Personally I don't like the money out in full view. It has nothing to do with LE. It has to do with not wanting the session to like a business transaction. Yes, I know it really is but I want it seem like it's not. For me part of GFE is having the session seem as little like a busimess transaction as possible. I usually place the donation inside a greeting card in which I have written a personal note and placed in an unsealed envelope. I usually have a small gift for the lady and I discretely pass the envelope to her along with the gift. I then busy myself with making drinks or something to give the lady an opportunity to check the donation. However, I do have an advantage of being a P411 member and make almost all of my appointments through P411. This might make the lady a little less suspicious.

[JessieJane]

Personally I don't like the money out in full view. It has nothing to do with LE. It has to do with not wanting the session to like a business transaction. Yes, I know it really is but I want it seem like it's not. For me part of GFE is having the session seem as little like a busimess transaction as possible. I usually place the donation inside a greeting card in which I have written a personal note and placed in an unsealed envelope. I usually have a small gift for the lady and I discretely pass the envelope to her along with the gift. I then busy myself with making drinks or something to give the lady an opportunity to check the donation. However, I do have an advantage of being a P411 member and make almost all of my appointments through P411. This might make the lady a little less suspicious.

I totally understand your perspective on not wanting it to feel like a business transaction. To me the way you handle it is definitely a smooth & simple way to approach it without being awkward.

[Kara Nicole]

Personally I don't like the money out in full view. It has nothing to do with LE. It has to do with not wanting the session to like a business transaction. Yes, I know it really is but I want it seem like it's not. For me part of GFE is having the session seem as little like a busimess transaction as possible. I usually place the donation inside a greeting card in which I have written a personal note and placed in an unsealed envelope. I usually have a small gift for the lady and I discretely pass the envelope to her along with the gift. I then busy myself with making drinks or something to give the lady an opportunity to check the donation. However, I do have an advantage of being a P411 member and make almost all of my appointments through P411. This might make the lady a little less suspicious.

Your way is good to doll.

[Ben Rhimene]

I get NJ's point and do it a bit differently. When I arrive and we get the "Hellos" out of the way I find an empty spot on a table or counter and set down my keys, phone, sunglasses. I then lay the donation nearby where it is easy to count. This serves a few purposes. My pockets do not have bulky items in them which can be annoying during playtime. They also don't get lost during disrobing. The lady can choose when and how she collects the donation, and at no point do I hand her the money.

[Snorwood]

When I arrive and we get the "Hellos" out of the way I find an empty spot on a table or counter and set down my keys, phone, sunglasses. I then lay the donation nearby where it is easy to count.

I do this too. I will use an unsealed, unmarked envelope unless the lady specifies otherwise. Tons of plausible-deniability if the donation is just one of a number of fairly valuable objects that you remove from your pockets and put on a table. Simply "forget" to pick up the envelope when you leave. If anyone (LE) asks, it is for poker later, and I didn't realize I left it behind.

The donation envelope being unmarked is important, in my opinion, because it would be hard to argue that the money is not for the lady if you've put her name on it (or on a card with the money inside it).

[The Water Company ~]

welcome aboard CG,

idc how you give it to me. you can hand it to me, a greeting card, envelope or no envelope.
you can leave it on the table etc etc.
i've already screened you and will understand and expect your nervousness from being new,
so i dont expect perfect behavior. and if we're conversing and u somehow forget to get it to me, i will ask for it.
i dont sweat the small stuff.
however, i will not answer and i'll leave you standing outside if i see you walking from your vehicle to my incall with it visible in your hand.

...throughout as long as theres some semblance of professionalism from you i expect a couple natural f ups.

[lmf987]

I always thought that providers prefer envelopes since that's how it's usually requested. Leaving donations out in plain sight feels so awkward to me but I will definitely try putting it next to my keys next time if a provider doesn't like envelopes.

[h0neymustard]

Condoms and envelope are put on table or dresser. I go get cleaned up, we do our stuff, envelope gets left behind.

[Ben Rhimene]

Condoms and envelope are put on table or dresser. I go get cleaned up, we do our stuff, envelope gets left behind.

I suppose that works, but using an envelope makes it look like that amount was set aside for a predefined purpose versus just what happened to be in your pocket. Decreases the plausible deniability Snorwood and i prefer.

On top of that if the lady is a "counter" or simply wants to eyeball the donation an envelope gets in the way.

I'm all about conserving the paper...

[ChevyGuy]

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I suppose that works, but using an envelope makes it look like that amount was set aside for a predefined purpose versus just what happened to be in your pocket. Decreases the plausible deniability Snorwood and i prefer.

On top of that if the lady is a "counter" or simply wants to eyeball the donation an envelope gets in the way.

I'm all about conserving the paper...

bring some lose change for extra credibility and few singles. $413.48 on counter

[Ben Rhimene]

Maybe that's why you're not verified? Gotta look at it from 3 angles: Your's, the lady's, and LE'S. Sure, it looks more random for LE, but to the lady it looks like an insulting tip.

Given the odds of seeing the lady again vs. LE I will pass on that extra plausible deniability...