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    Why do guys flake?

    Why schedule multiple times with a provider then waste time EVERYTIME. And have the audacity to write reviews on the girls you flaked on them with. This sites turning into a back page.. I’ve never had so many unprofessional guys blow me up before it’s crazy. Ladies and gents, how do YOUU feel When you get flaked on?
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    I've had several girls cancel on me and I don't really mind... I've learned that it's just part of this and don't allow any emotions to get in the way.

    They've actually texted me to know they are cancelling the session... I've been told that she hurt her back... another one had her time of the month...
    and I have booked with them afterwards and had a great time... I don't really make a big deal out of it.

    There's also a couple on this site that reply to the initial texts... and then when you are on your way they stop answering completely... from then on
    I just ignore those ads, but I sincerely don't feel angry nor upset... those I just ignore from that moment onwards... it's just part of this.

    I guess stuff like this happens to doctors, dentists, barbers, everyday...

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    Quote Originally Posted by richardscott View Post
    I've had several girls cancel on me and I don't really mind... I've learned that it's just part of this and don't allow any emotions to get in the way.

    They've actually texted me to know they are cancelling the session... I've been told that she hurt her back... another one had her time of the month...
    and I have booked with them afterwards and had a great time... I don't really make a big deal out of it.

    There's also a couple on this site that reply to the initial texts... and then when you are on your way they stop answering completely... from then on
    I just ignore those ads, but I sincerely don't feel angry nor upset... those I just ignore from that moment onwards... it's just part of this.

    I guess stuff like this happens to doctors, dentists, barbers, everyday...
    Oh I’d have no problem if the guy let me know he was gonna cancel It’s when someone cancels and says nothing. I find it disrespectful
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    Quote Originally Posted by Caseykk View Post
    Oh I’d have no problem if the guy let me know he was gonna cancel It’s when someone cancels and says nothing. I find it disrespectful
    You are referring to NCNS? (no call no shows)..... Thais is so disrespectful and it goes both ways and should be posted! ...it's a waste of time and donations, no excuse, even if you get a flat tire down the street, text that person!

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    I think many guys are just testing the water, most of them dont have references or not seeing many providers. But! Saying this, its completely disrespectful not letting you know, that says quite a bit of the person you are dealing with.
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    This has NOTHING to do with the "Hobby"..... But RESPECT for people / life... Plain old RESPECT... when was the LAST time you held the door open for someone... Said "Thank you'...VS "not a problem"... let someone in in traffic... go in front of you... RANT OVER

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    Same reason providers flake. Because there's no consequences for doing so - just put them on blast so that no reasonable provider will see the guy without a deposit.
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    Oswald, people do things for a reason. No matter how idiotic or stupid. "No consequences" comes across as the equivalent of crank calling. I don't think someone puts up an ad just to ignore people. But than again....
    Will always PM from this or the other site as initial contact.

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    @PB, There's obviously a reason for not showing up (e.g. Provider/Hobbyiest nowhere close to being ready/spooked for some reason), but the reason someone would be an inconsiderate dick and not tell the other person they can't make it is because they don't face consequences for wasting the other person's time.
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    I guess I can't understand why someone won't say they're late, got a bad feel or whatever.
    Especially if they had a dialogue going on. The standard 2 call things means you have been in contact VERY recently.

    At least for SAGE people should know they're gonna wait LOL!
    Will always PM from this or the other site as initial contact.

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    I have had a friend or family show up unexpectedly, or work related cancel, I 90% of the time shoot a text or VM , but sometimes it impossible to shake a person or wife, some times it’s catchy a bad vibe seeing a incall
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    The one's who do it are probably $broke.

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    Interesting Such as Lfe

    1. Why schedule multiple times with a provider then waste time EVERYTIME. ?
    Guyeefawkes: Well the choice is your not to see the men who waste your time MULTIPLE TIMES

    2. And have the audacity to write reviews on the girls you flaked on them with.
    Guyeefawkes: It may have been respectful for them to CANCEL in advance or not schedule with you. Possibly you were there #2 option and #1 came thru. Men like to have options and do you know in particular as fact that they did not have their #1 option confirm last minute. And therefore not requiring your services. There are many possibilities on how this may have played out without knowing full details. Then we have as we do now one word against another.

    3. This sites turning into a back page
    . Guyeefawkes: I have to disagree on this one BP had a lot of spam and BS ads.

    4. I’ve never had so many unprofessional guys blow me up before it’s crazy. Ladies and gents, how do YOUU feel When you get flaked on?
    Guyeefawkes: I feel you should move on from those who may have ";flaked on you" Each woman here will handle their business accordingly .. Wish you the best in your future endeavors CHICKEN POT CHICKEN POT PIE ..
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    I understand the frustration with these issues on both sides. Life does happen.

    I can say I have a 100% show rate. If I schedule, I show up.

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    I'm sorry that happened to you. It sucks. Unfortunately the best you can do is not deal with them again and move on. I hope it doesnt happen to you again.

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