Face pics

[Crimson37]

Hey all,

Sorry for the long winded post, but I feel like framing the question is important.

I've been in the hobby for some time, but I really don't get to participate as much as I'd like on account of the shape of my personal and professional life. (Free time and money are never as available as I'd like. Honestly makes it really disappointing to be unable to get verified despite numerous providers promising to do their part, but that is a tale of woe for another time.)

Due to years of undiagnosed and poorly managed diabetes, I have issues with ED and maintaining sensation and, consequently, tend to go in almost exclusively for CW and other oral service options. While I enjoy a nice, lithe body as much as the next man, what really does it for me is a pretty face (eyes, lips, etc).

Obviously, in this hobby, there is a lot of value to be placed on body pics and I definitely understand the need for discretion with regards to maintaining anonymity on a public facing site.

My question is about whether there is an appropriate/easy way to ask for a face pic of a provider before booking with them. Any insight, whether from personal experience or from a provider or twenty would be tremendously appreciated!

Thanks!

[Sue Nami]

hun, as a CW provider who sees fellows with ED difficulties, I can answer from my perspective. I never have, and never will, provide face pictures. I know half of this town and have lived here over 40 years and I am active in the local music, politics, and many other cutural scenes here. I think you should pick a provider with the skills you need and the reviews to back that up. once a woman provides her face in this job, essentially her cover is blown, she is a "marked" woman and she can not have a "normal" life and be active in local public activites. I believe that when push comes to shove, a good skill set from a provider with an excellent reputation can blow the doors off a cute pretty girl lacking the experience and skills to get to the meat of your matter and satisfy your difficulties. Guys do not pick me for my looks. They pick me because they need the skills that I offer and know they will have a sure fire damn good time. From a woman's point of view, through our long lives, a pretty face is there for a bit, while experience, skills and a good attitude can last a woman a lot longer in this hobby. Humans are programed to be attracted to beauty. there is no fault to that and your desires are normal. But what about the desire for novelty, the new, finding the best? those desires too have shaped human evolution. I hope you find a happy medium here. I am so happy I have ever provided a face picture, that I have lasted in this hobby and that my skill set has put me in the good place I am in now. I value my participation in my community, my town, my friends and this hobby is none of their business. Society still judges woman harshly in so many ways. You must forgive those of us with the desire to protect our privacy and need to be involved in a local life without the scarlet letter of this hobby emblazoned on our foreheads. So my advice is ask nicely and be polite and understanding when she politely declines to blow her cover forever on your behalf. good luck sugar!

[Crimson37]

That is absolutely fair, Sue, and I do not disagree. I am disappointed in where our society is, but there is only so much I can do to change it. You make good points, and I thank you for your perspective.

Anyone else care to weigh in and share thoughts on this topic?

[OswaldBates]

Ask for a photo with a facemask. If you're not sure if you'll like what you'll see once the mask is off, have her keep the face mask on and use your imagination!

Edit: just realized that may not work based on what you want. Just lay back and close your eyes.

[Lil Tex]

Crimson,
I would suggest maybe just reading reviews. They almost always mention looks.
For those who have a no review policy, you could discreetly inquire in locker room, and probably get a good idea.
I too enjoy a good cw.... just something about those eyes looking up....

[Deja Tha Doll]

Well babe, some people like myself have plenty of pics and videos on our onlyfans that show our face, (and so much more)!!! If someone was truly interested in seeing me, and wanted to see a preview of what they are in for before we meet, they usually sign up for my onlyfans.

Guys sometimes request pictures during sessions, some will request custom pictures after meets, but most figure the best bang for their buck would be to just sign up to a providers OF because you get +100s of pics & +100s of videos for the same amount (I) request for a one time session photo shoot.

We all know there are plenty of guys who will ask for free pics, (to jerk to), who have no intentions of scheduling. Which is one reason we providers may become weary when randomly approached for pictures, especially by someone we haven't yet met.

I think a provider would be more inclined to sharing face pics if you approached her first by inquiring her price for a custom photo, if you aren't wanting to go the OF route luv.

In an effort to maintain some form of discretion and privacy for my own piece of mind and safety, I save my face pics and the rest of my spicy content for my OF and custom requests.

Hope that helps ��