Gents, what's something your ATF does to fire up your dates in the days leading up?

[jazzbill]

If you're single and unattached then sending pics and texts can be a cool thing. But if you have a SO as I do then less is better for discretion sake. I don't have as much hobbying opportunities as I once did, so when I do get a chance to play I'm already pumped up for the visit.

[billtime83]

My ATF usually asks if I have requests for outfits or scenarios (yes, we have roleplayed). But, as some guys above have said, just knowing that there is an element of care is massive. Knowing that my partner is willing to treat this as something more than a transaction. Both sides are people.