So, not sure if this is allowed...
I was on ECCIE as bigtonyofkc. I posted a thread in the men's lounge, and info from that thread was leaked. So when I quit ECCIE, rumors were because a provider stalked me and outed me to my wife. That's simply not true. My wife did find my ECCIE account, because I didn't clear the history properly.
The provider had nothing to do with me leaving that site, and it's BS the way some guy named bonedigger tried using that thread to manipulate and harass the provider in question.
If she wants to come by and let you know who I am referencing, that's up to her.
I left ECCIE, not the hobby. So when I heard what was said, I reached out to the provider and she confirmed what I heard was happening.
I'm sorry to her that I caused any drama. You guys who used that private info to hurt her are pieces of shit.