I started in the hobby after my divorce in 2005, I was deep into the hobby as well (Dear_John) for about ten years. There were great social events invites from ASPD to attend miss the poker parties! Do your due diligence in research, as someone mentioned join P411 most reliable resource in my opinion. Then find reviews (if) no reviews stay away as a rule of thumb. Read alerts and warnings too, be aware of LE they are much more creative these days. Network within ourhome2. I have had the pleasure in being introduced to newbies by providers I had sessions with (those are awesome experiences!) If you travel always go by P411. Hope this helps - good luck and bust a nut or two!