Tipping & Gifts

[TryingNewThings]

How do you, girls chime in here as well, about tipping and gifts?

I have an ATF who has numerous clients. She tells me only one other guy ever tips her. And her skills and attitude are off the chain so I know it's not that. And she never complains about not getting a tip from guys. But there's been times when she says I forgot my money and I have to remind her that's a tip. And I know she's doing, like, 50 to 60 session a month so the math says that about 4% of her sessions are tipping. I ask WTF?

For Christmas I got her a flower arrangement with her cash gift pinned all through the arrangement in smaller bills. Of course she loved it and she said no one ever does that kind of thing. I realized I could be getting lied to here, but...

I have a budget, no one budgets like I do, but it always includes a tip. And I know you'll think this is just tooting my own horn or drumming up my own business. But not so friends, really.

So I recently read in a, now closed, post about changing rates and a provider brought up that you could just take the $20 or $30 difference out of the tip. And that's exactly what I would have done. And I'm not trying to reopen that post. It's closed for a reason where it should be. But I digress.

I play a lot in San Antonio but my Austin providers say the same thing about tipping here in Austin as well. So I don't think it's just a San Antonio thing. I've posted this is the SATx coed forum to see what each area has to say.

The real question is whether or not you tip, or get tipped

And why or why not?

As always... Stay Safe! Happy Hobbying!!

TNT

[AlexandraSand]

Tip for provider is not common at all. IMHO

In the last two years, I literally got tipped by only 3 gents, got flowers once, got a book twice, and got a beautiful card trice.

Generosity is Usually expected, if not demanded, from a provider: overstaying, not tipping, not bringing your own condoms - and always expecting excellence on the other side.

I know few boys, who can't take my gifts home with them, but I still get those gifts and keep them for myself, in memory of a great client! I have collection of funny socks, which reminds me of "him."
I absolutely love dogs and have been very involved this last 2.5 month with dog rescue, so I make a point to always buy few doggy toys everywhere I go. A lot of my friends have dogs, and they(dogs) adore me, because I always have a toy for them. I have given those toys to my clients too - Good Dog! - rewards. LOL That is my way of tipping a client.
I also get special food for some, or favorite drink for others, or set a party to celebrate something - this is all "a little something special," in return for kindness, for a tip, or sweet message, or no hustle date - I mean, this is how I show gratitude.

And yes, there are many gents out there, who gift houses, cars, jewellery, watches, trips - you name it and I have received it.

Thank you all for generosity, that you show to fellow humans and other God's creatures. Tips are greatly appreciated and will get you more perks from a provider. 100%

[Lovinglifeinaustin]

I will tip when my lady’s requested donation is less than the going amount. But that does not happen often.

I always come bearing gifts. I love giving flowers and a gift bag of goodies like chocolates, drinks, cards, and something I know the woman enjoys. I enjoy the GFE, so I try to provide the BFE.

[Mokoa]

The last sentence in this forum's description reads as follows...

No discussions about rates.

We are done here.