Tipping & Gifts

[TryingNewThings]

How do you, girls chime in here as well, about tipping and gifts?

I have an ATF who has numerous clients. She tells me only one other guy ever tips her. And her skills and attitude are off the chain so I know it's not that. And she never complains about not getting a tip from guys. But there's been times when she says I forgot my money and I have to remind her that's a tip. And I know she's doing, like, 50 to 60 session a month so the math says that about 4% of her sessions are tipping. I ask WTF?

For Christmas I got her a flower arrangement with her cash gift pinned all through the arrangement in smaller bills. Of course she loved it and she said no one ever does that kind of thing. I realized I could be getting lied to here, but...

I have a budget, no one budgets like I do, but it always includes a tip. And I know you'll think this is just tooting my own horn or drumming up my own business. But not so friends, really.

So I recently read in a, now closed, post about changing rates and a provider brought up that you could just take the $20 or $30 difference out of the tip. And that's exactly what I would have done. And I'm not trying to reopen that post. It's closed for a reason where it should be. But I digress.

The real question is whether or not you tip, or get tipped

And why or why not?

As always... Stay Safe! Happy Hobbying!!

TNT

[JohnnyWadd]

The only time I tip a girl is when
she goes above and beyond the
call of duty.

If a girl is a HDH making 3 or 400/hr +
I'm much less likely to tip.

It's totally your call.
The girl telling you no one tips her is
like the hot bartender emptying her tip
jar every 5 minutes and sighing and
looking dejected every time you belly
up for a beer.

Only you can make the call, but if you're
on OH2 asking, you have your own doubts.
IMO, you're being played.

Good luck.

[guyeefawkes]

Damn it must be a slow NEWS DAY

[TryingNewThings]

I have considered that. But the to of built into want I cosideted paying anyway. But thanks for the input.

Guy, thanks for your input. It's always appreciated.

[Precious_b]

I'd like to hear from a certain Hobbyist who is always making comments about what the women charges, along with not paying up front.
Waiting for those pearls of wisdom.

[DallasRain]

i am on a lower donation scale than most..... but my motto is
Tips never expected..but always appreciated!

[Guest 051123-1]

I tip and gift occasionally, but not often. If I do, I go in knowing that I will tip or gift because I have already received superior service, either TCB or BCD. I do also tip my ATFs at Valentine’s and Christmas. They don’t expect it, and are always thankful when it happens.

[Mokoa]

The last sentence in this forum's description reads as follows...

No rate discussions!

We are done here.

I'd like to hear from a certain Hobbyist who is always making comments about what the women charges, along with not paying up front.
Waiting for those pearls of wisdom.

Do not hold your breath.