ya see!?!?!! this is why you are a star!!! some things that some guys want .. intensely ... leave me just shaking my head. but a lady who lists "giving blow jobs" as one of her interests on her profile page, this is a lady who bears watching!!! she clearly understands that a lady who thinks the way to a man's heart is through his stomach understands that this woman has set her sights too high. several inches, at least