It's definitely not a requirement for me, but I have to admit that I like it. One provider that I had been seeing for a while, I actually asked her to start sexting me. I thought it would be much more exciting than the usual "Hey, how are you?" "When are you coming to see me?"
Some providers just aren't built that way. As much as she tried it just always seemed fake to me, like she was forcing it. Sooooo, if it's not your thing, don't.
Preferred activities: DFK, BBBJ, DATY, cuddling, COB, COA, SS
CIM is a plus, but not a dealbreaker
Types of ladies: I love ladies of all races. I've never been with an Asian woman, or Indian/Desi but want to try. I have a preference for spinners but don't mind thicker women. Love titties-big or small, love pregnant women
I'm available for providers in the evenings during the week or early morning on weekends.
I'm an AA male, late 40's.
Definitely not expected, possibly not even feasible unless they are a low volume provider. With the right person it could be fun and it would definitely add to the excitement, if believable/not generic.
Not required or expected but a plus if needed.
Have to admit, quite surprised that 70% think it should be a requirement for the lady to use her time providing a sexting service. Would they also be willing to up the donation rate for that additional service? Agreed, adds to excitement and if a lady exchanges a few sexy texts, I'm more likely to see her more often. On the other hand, it would be a valuable marketing tool, kind of like sexy pics or well written ads. Requirement? NO. Would it enhance the overall experience, Absolutely! That being said, up to the provider and the client and what happens between two consenting adults is a matter of personal preference.
While I don't think it should be required or expected, there is something to say for the anticipation and build up of excitement that comes with some erotic sexting (for many people, at least). If I have an appointment scheduled for 2, 3, or more days in advance, it excites me to know she's thinking about our upcoming rendezvous too. It definitely adds bonus points for her when it comes time for a tip and/or a review. Just my 2 cents worth.
Included as part of a service, I personally dont think so. But it is nice to add some flair to the situation.
Just my opinion from the new girl 😏
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I regularly sexttext with 2 of my regular companions. I see this being a big plus for those of us who have built a close relationship...this makes the encounters that much more special. There is a greater anticipation
Most of us appear to agree that it isn't a requirement but it is a nice bonus. But that's only viewing it from the guy side. The provider should see it as a way to minimize no shows and cancelations. Guys are visually aroused. If you give them eye candy and occasional texts of flirtation, they will be more likely to show up. When I first started hobbying, I would get cold feet sometimes even after I walked in the room because I felt there wasn't chemistry and it was going to be a wasted session. Setting and flirty texts would have likely broken the ice in advance.
Really surprised more ladies haven't given their 2 cents here. I'd guess I'm in the minority for enjoying some naughty talk as foreplay to a playtime(Yes, only once screened or returning friends)I'll even have a slut Jack Off in my name(selfish of me as I want fresh cum) lol
No, but I don’t understand why so many get so irritated about it. Some ladies seem to forget what we are all doing here.
noy requierd but it would be much nicer than the regular
hey im available today
or when are you coming to see me
or im back in Houston
with a little sexting i feel less of an atm
something like babe my panties are wet come help me
honeybi just drove back in town to see you cum with me .....
i dont know there are many ways to turn a man ......
I definitely enjoy it, but i don't expect it. If the girl is into it, then i'm definitely happy to do it.
No, I wouldn't say that its part of their job. but it would definitely help me make a decision and could benefit the provider. as long as guys understood that 2 or 3 messages was just for fun and could let it go at that
Not needed for an actual session.
However, I have had a provider that I've seen several times contact me all dry with just "Hey!"...maybe even a "How are you?"
After a few times of her doing that I suggested to her that if she's going to text, she may as well sext. Sexting would probably make me wanna come spend time with you more than a text I'd get from a civvy chick. But, the drawback was, even when she tried to sext it just didn't seem natural. It just wasn't in her.
Preferred activities: DFK, BBBJ, DATY, cuddling, COB, COA, SS
CIM is a plus, but not a dealbreaker
Types of ladies: I love ladies of all races. I've never been with an Asian woman, or Indian/Desi but want to try. I have a preference for spinners but don't mind thicker women. Love titties-big or small, love pregnant women
I'm available for providers in the evenings during the week or early morning on weekends.
I'm an AA male, late 40's.
It sure can build up the excitement before the meet. I’ve had a few do it and it led to some steamy visits. I find this more with the latina women. Most of them are full of passion anyway.
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