Hey so I’m mostly new to the hobby. so I guess I may still have unrealistic expectations. A little bit of back ground. I’m 30, fit, with a decent job. I’ve never had any issues dating and have been told I’m easy on the eyes. That being said, I’m really picky. it’s just the excitement of the hobby and the efficiency of it all. Anyways, I’m also overly nice and polite and I keep finding myself in situations where the person is NOT what they promoted themselves to be. I’m relunctanr to use the term cat-fish as it’s. It really dating. But more often than not this has led to several instances of 4$$+ less than memorable experiences. Is there a way that’s accept to back out or say no. I feel bad bc of all the effort that it’s taken to get to the door and it’s time that was scheduled. Help! I’m 1 for 12 (+ some ive blocked from memory I’m sure).


Let’s get this outta the way with me saying I know I’m a shallow asshole. But c’mon .. am I wrong?