blow job techniques

[mathguy]

Oh yea for those wondering b/c of the diagram, female ejaculate (chemically unique to urine, instead containing enzymes similar to PSA) does release from the urethra. Female ejaculate (skene's), urine, & female ejaculate with urine are all different and all can happen separately in various sexually stimulated situations.

[Dirtyolderprofman]

I like a slow tongue tease and kissing from my neck to nipples . Sucking & kissing nipples , then slowing licking down around balls and cock - teasing ... then after couple minutes of tongue teasing and kissing - 1st... ball licking and sucking first to wake up the boys , esp concentrating on the right ball where the Cum starts , then lick my cock slow at first up and down like a pop sickle, then licking head and concentrating licking on underside of my head ( most sensitive part of a cock ) , then Finally putting my cock in ur mouth after 5 minutes of teasing -


then sucking w some deepthroat too but nice slow sucking - not racing fast - then swallowing your reward while picking up the pace while I’m blowing - picking up pace while swallowing every drop - then continue to suck my cock until I tap out - couple of minutes after cumming I’ll tap..... too sensitive if done this way ( 10-12 minutes from start to finish ) big O too

[Sammy75]

I like a mix of hand and no hand. Yes to ball and taint licking please! Some deep throat is nice too, as it adds a different feeling/pressure. I like to be edged, and I like to watch it and see the gal's eyes sometimes. CIM with slow and gentle finishing as/right after I cum. That's actually one of my favorite parts if done carefully enough...that gentle warm after-cum feeling is, to me, quite wonderful. I get that it's a hard line to walk though, as we do get so sensitive right after. Swallowing is nice and helps with this I think, because you're not then keeping a load just sitting in your mouth waiting to run off and spit it out, but that's just not a huge deal either way to me.

Enthusiasm counts for a lot too!

[Funwithfriends]

PrincessK you can't possibly start with a limp dick ... From the moment the gent sees your smile and holds you close for that first kiss the firming begins...smoking hot ... Hate I was out of town this week and missed you!!

[PrincessK]

PrincessK you can't possibly start with a limp dick ... From the moment the gent sees your smile and holds you close for that first kiss the firming begins...smoking hot ... Hate I was out of town this week and missed you!!

Prehaps I worded that wrong, I like to take it in mouth when it's at its full potential. I missed you as well but I'm sure when we meet it'll be like we didn't miss a beat as always ��

[Leslie Lane]

Not to get too off the original BJ question but since it is still another oral related activity I wanted to point out an aspect of your quote. No offense Lox. I realize you know it already but I wanted to point this out for those who don't yet & figured it was as a decent segue as any.

The g-spot itself, while not far inside, is still a bit too far for our tongue It's also awkwardly positioned.

The g-spot is almost directly opposite the clitoris, under the pubic bone. It's typically ~2-4in inside & 'up' on the anterior wall. It'll feel like a small nub of ribbed flesh. You will know when you've found it just by watching her face.

Pro Tips: Go slow, softly, have nails trimmed, be gentle, watch her face & body movements as you explore.

If you use a toy you want a very hard tip. Nothing floppy or soft on the end. Rock hard tips, hard rubber, steel, etc... You don't want it to flop around and bend inside.

Insert a hard dildo very gently & slowly, once inside about 2-4in push 'down' so the tip angles all the way 'up' inside of her. Move it very slowly left & right, adjusting pressure based on her sensitivity, also move it in and out +/- ~1in or so. You will find it easily this way. She should communicate to you as well as this process takes place.

A simple diagram to show how they sit nearly directly opposite each other, the g-spot just inside, usually a bit 'up' against the anterior vaginal wall

Be still my heart!! This...100x over. ;)

[lovingcamela]

Fun thread! Thank you Suenami for posting something we can all have fun with.

I love super slow and sensual bj’s. First I start with light caresses, then drip oil onto the cock with a teasing hj. When I give head I enjoy experiencing how different parts of the cock feel in my mouth. For example the ridge of the head to the shaft is something that excites me. The head is always so smooth too. At times his cock will pulse inside my mouth alerting me his close and then I can pull back. Usually I start all over with soft caresses and more teasing with my hands. And if he wants to finger me at the same time as I am pleasuring his cock with my mouth there is a synchronicity and rhythm that sends one or both into that vortex of stillness where time dangles over us. Sigh..the older I get the more I enjoy sucking cock. My only thing I desire is being able to deep throat. I gag too easy. Seriously, I can’t figure it out. Sometimes I like gagging, but more so I would love to be able to have my mouth fucked withoutinhibition. It just doesn’t happen for me. LOL. Oh well! Hence, my hands and mouth go simultaneously. It makes for the full experience of cock worship.

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[mathguy]

My only thing I desire is being able to deep throat. I gag too easy. Seriously, I can’t figure it out. Sometimes I like gagging, but more so I would love to be able to have my mouth fucked withoutinhibition. It just doesn’t happen for me. LOL. Oh well! Hence, my hands and mouth go simultaneously. It makes for the full experience of cock worship.

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Hey Cam! You can train yourself with enough effort. My ex was not great at a deep BJ when we met. She couldn't open her mouth wide enough & she had a gag reflex. She too had to use more hands. In time though she learned to do it damn well.

Literally for the first year or two she could only get around top third & use her hands on the bottom. She learned to go all the way down though.

It was tough b/c she had a smaller palate/jaw & needed to learn to relax it a lot. I'm not insanely long @ 6.3-6.4in but I am very thick @ 6.3in girth. At max erection quality eventually she could go the full 6.3-6.4 length. And I'm a very slight 'cone shape' where my girth at base is 6.45 to almost 6.5in so that was an amazing achievement!

It almost literally looked like your attached pic in the early days haha Nice painting btw. Did you paint it?

[billtime83]

My favorite techniques: I'm really into a slower teasing. Lots of tongue, saliva. Hands mainly to hold to mouth, or slowly stroke. Deepthroating isn't a big deal for me. I prefer attention to the head. I prefer cim for several of the reason above; I worry about timing, the actual pleasure of it (especially if she's still going, and it doesn't matter if she spits afterward), and it feels a bit more intimate.

[DallasRain]

yessssss Bill youre my kinda guy!!!!

[KalyEscort]

I particularly need to use a lot of saliva to use it as a lubricant so that I can do it in a deep way and my mouth slides easily without scratching my partner's skin, for deep throat I found a position lying on the bed with my head hanging from the edge where the penis can go deep without suffocating me.

Kaly

[lovingcamela]

It almost literally looked like your attached pic in the early days haha Nice painting btw. Did you paint it?

Yes, that photo is my art. I made a card out of it! It’s fun to show my friends and shock them.

Okay...back to BJ techniques. I pose this question....Is there ever too much saliva?

[AlexandraSand]

If there is never too much saliva!

I wonder, how many guys diet, before dreaming to unload his load in to someones mouth? Do you know, that we can smell your alcohol, vitamins, drugs, bad food, spicy food, before you even ejaculate and especially after?! Nut sack is especially smelly, no mater clean or not, if you have poor diet.

I also wonder, does any of you guys do scrub, clarifying mask and moisturize skin around your privates? Like a mini facial? Do you know, that you can get same pimples and clogged pores with blackheads between your legs? How many of you took a mirror to your taint area lately?! Just wondering.

Also, girls can be allergic to your sperm, no matter who you are.

[Eightpack212]

When this thread was initially made and I came across it, I had a for sure answer that I wanted to immediately type. But after a couple of sessions with strictly bjs and taking some serious and personal thought my answer immediately changed. Which brings me to typing it here now lol.

I can’t really describe how I like to get a blow job, because every time I’ve gotten a great one, they have left me speechless and unable to describe how it felt. Everything just felt “exactly right”. She looked at me in my eyes at the right time and that passion was there, the way she stroked me while she was sucking me at the right time felt exactly right, her mouth felt exactly as wet as I would like in that exact moment, even the texture of her hands felt perfect in that moment. I didn’t have to do any “coaching” at all. Even if I wanted to, I wouldn’t be able to because I would be left in awe/speechless by her performance (Lol sorry to be graphic).

But I think the biggest/greatest technique to me, comes down to the mental aspect of it. Before her mouth even touches me down below.

I’m immediately turned on if the provider (or any woman I truly like for that matter, that Im blessed to receive this from) is sensual (does she authentically/ organically enjoy doing it, and does it show) and does she have 100% confidence in her own personal skillz(the type of confidence, that says “sit back, relax, I know EXACTLY what I’m doing. I GOT this. I KNOW EXACTLY how to take care of you)

[dodger]

i just read a review and it brought some things to mind. men's desires for some specific blow job techniques show we all must like different things. and a lot of them are clearly a matter of taste, personal preference. i guess you like them, to some degree need them to enjoy the experience. but some, sorry ... i simply just don't get them.

things i like: dt, licking/sucking my balls (which is why i shave them), holding her head and leading to some gentle to moderate face fucking.

things i don't care about:

- if she is looking at me or anywhere or even if her eyes are open

- cim or anywhere else .,.. i care about the sensations not the locations. the value of cim is if she continues the job through the "o" .. okay ... i get that, suck it dry!! but cob, cum on face? no .. don't care

- spitting ... i would rather the lady not do this. it is a bit distracting and ... really, not very lady like ...therefore, not sexy

i'm sure there are more ... i'm a fussy old man. i get that. there may be more but for now, my catharsis is on pause