blow job techniques

[mathguy]

^ I agree with most of what dodger said. I do now see why some guys want the cim-swallow b/c it means more sensation and she won't stop. That part does makes sense.

What I don't get either is the actual "location". I don't care where it lands or goes.

I also don't really care about the spitting either. If it's for moisture that's fine I guess but *mostly* it seems to be that over the top PSE type thing where the girl is looking up, or back, at you with [supposed] "fuck me" eyes. That's the idea. The problem is even in porn many of the girls are SO BAD at it and it's SO fake.

It's disingenuous. It's like those girls in porn that look back at the guy, growl, grunt, act like a lioness, say all this absurd dirty talk OR squeals & eye-rolling. it's SO obvious to any guy with experience that it's fake. That is what tons of that spitting reminds me of it's not a genuine sexual act. Reminds of those fake girls who think acting like a lioness, growling, visceral grunting, eye-rolling... makes it hot or tricks us

Don't get me wrong, I love dirty talk, I love screaming. I do. I've had my share of women do all that in private life/SO, fwb's, hobby, etc... But it MUST be genuine. You won't trick a very experienced man. I hate that fake eye-rolling shit, shaking legs only bc young guys think all women shake their body/legs uncontrollably on orgasm (looking at you xvideos & pornhub lmao), "fake" moaning, fake "fuck me" groans... If it's genuine go for it! Hot AF with certain women.

Some of this went a little off topic but it all relates anyway.

[AlexandraSand]

I know a trick, when giving BJ - you just wipe it with your hand, always have a towel handy to wipe your hands, let it pulsate spewing semen, wipe and continue playing with him, wipe and play, and when he is done spewing - she can suck again. No semen in my/her mouth and you would not even know, unless you are watching very closely, that you DID NOT CIM. LOL
There are so many tricks, how to make you think that you DID it- blocking your view is the easiest one. This is only one example, how CIM have ended on my review. Also, this is possibly how some of you interpret your experiences and brag about it in reviewing other providers.

And you guys are right - good and experienced providers can trick you! Work smarter, not harder.

[Berry Skyes]

Well, my hand now has a cramp from all the notes I’ve been taking hehehe

Great thread! Great contributions! Goodness Gracious Great balls O’ FIRE!

[fobio]

Best Blowjob: Enthusiastic
Best Attitude: Bubbly

Everyone's different so communication is key here.
My 2 favs were Mercedes and Bella from CA.
Both had varying skills.
I was a regular, tipped well, and gave massages in between sessions so that helps too.

Bella was always bubbly and talkative.
She'd asked me how my day was then proceeded to go down on me vigorously before I could answer.
Hearing me squirm was a big turn on for her and we both liked it rough.

Mercedes had mad DT skills.
Both ladies provided CIM but Mercedes was next level.
Her DT with CIM was absolute heaven.
Never figured out how she did it without swallowing.
Maybe my pecker too short.
8==D~~~ O;

[Sexyrachelina]

Like you're throwing up? No respect for your session..Get a clue..guys love a swallowing gal..More tips too..Have fun

[Iron Butterfly]

A firm grip on my balls, pulling and squeezing, slow edging, going from cock to balls, no hands on cock, show cum at ending.

[DallasRain]

A firm grip on my balls, pulling and squeezing, slow edging, going from cock to balls, no hands on cock, show cum at ending.

hell yeahhh lets do it!

[GoWest]

what does swallowing vs spitting have to do with it besides power tripping

I never considered swallowing a "power trip." CIM feels awesome because you can just enjoy the BJ. Cumming while being firmly hugged by a mouth just feels awesome. Taking that further, I will take a swallow whenever it's offered--not because of a power trip, but because the act of swallowing usually creates some extra suction, and I LOVE the feeling of every drop being sucked out. I love heavy suction, especially when I'm cumming.

Worst BJ experiences: girl pulling off before you're done cumming, and too loose/light suction.
I don't care about hands so much, as long as it's not more of a hand job than a blowjob.

Sue Nami: I saw you once a while back, and I can say you provided some great suction! (Might have been because I asked :-).