Crossing the line or na?

[Anna Nikkole]

In this industry we have to post to make you horny. We have to show pictures to turn you on. We are here to get you to make the call.

So if that is talk os licking asshole, sucking balls, taking loads to the face, welp, it's advertising.

Is there a proper response in PM or any form of communication when the provider answers in that way?

If she answers with all of that, can you tell her that you want her to be your little cum slut? And what would you say if she took offense to it?

I pointed a client to a provider such as this, and she told me that he was derogatory. Well when I saw him again I told him that there was no excuse for that and that didn't seem like his style
And he explained that she responded to appointment request to the affect of "I'll make you my little slut and drain your balls", and something to the affect of was she gonna be a "good *****".

So as I have clients asking me for appointments, I make them come direct and correct. No sexting as it's just me, it's who I am. In play time, welp after p4p let's get naughty.

Is it ok for the response to match the initial form of communication?

Thoughts?

And btw, thanks to the gents who keep it simple and respectful to me. I do notice

[Megamind]

I personally would never get overly explicit in initial contact. All of my experiences so far have been on seeking arrangements and listcrawler simply because I'm trying to bargain shop with the uncertainty of what Biden might do in terms of a shutdown. I don't even touch a lady until I've put the donation on the table. I feel like a lady should be compensated for everything she does here so I don't get into sexting. To me it's not fair for her. I politely ask about daty and maybe kissing and that's about it, but I'm honestly pretty bland when it comes to sex. I really get zero thrill out of stuff like tuma etc. Thats me. I'm standard, daty missionary kissing then orgasm. Pretty simple guy lol.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Why isn't the Provider in question asking this question if it didn't occur with you? IMO if you advertise yourself as a complete slut with no boundaries and you get treated as such; don't complain. You can't be YMMV, you get what you put out. Just like the girls that cry about how a guy "went too far". Well, look at the shit you wrote and advertise. Have some boundaries and self respect.

[Ben Rhimene]

Hmmmmm. I am a complete perv. But one who shows ladies courtesy and respects their boundaries...after all, it is more fun when we are on the same wavelength.

I would hope that initial responses (or inquiries...I get both) would be playful without getting explicit. If a connection is building then BOTH will slowly up the playfulness. Starting off a conversation at full throttle isn't helping either person.

[Anna Nikkole]

This occured several months ago and I put myself into perspective. I have some explicit pictures here and there. I don't mind questions about service if they are straight to the point. Do you allow daty, dfk etc. It's a yes or no question.


How much is to much. There is a thin line. We have to get these gents attention. But if that's all they see of me, why should I get angry if they follow suit in private?

[Alyssa XOXO]

But if that's all they see of me, why should I get angry if they follow suit in private?

Thank you. This quote is exactly what I will post when a girl cries about being violated. Great thread!

[Ben Rhimene]

This occured several months ago and I put myself into perspective. I have some explicit pictures here and there. I don't mind questions about service if they are straight to the point. Do you allow daty, dfk etc. It's a yes or no question.

Guys can be so effing stupid. Hate to say it. But what is so hard about telling a lady I like DFK, BBBJCIM, MSOG, DATY, DATO...and so forth and inquiring as to which of those SHE enjoys in private? It isn't hard to triangulate if you have a normal IQ/EQ.

[tbone2u]

I would think that if a guy does his homework that he already knows what to expect. I'm never explicit in first contacts.

[Ben Rhimene]

Alyssa...please stop posting...your avatar is completely disrupting my serene Thanksgiving...LMFAO.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Alyssa...please stop posting...your avatar is completely disrupting my serene Thanksgiving...LMFAO.

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Alyssa...please stop posting...your avatar is completely disrupting my serene Thanksgiving...LMFAO.

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Alyssa...please stop posting...your avatar is completely disrupting my serene Thanksgiving...LMFAO.

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Alyssa...please stop posting...your avatar is completely disrupting my serene Thanksgiving...LMFAO.

This?

[Alyssa XOXO]

Sorry babe, I'm laying on the couch with my feet propped up resting for a long run tomorrow. You're stuck with me tonight

Back on topic though...

[Ben Rhimene]

Sorry babe, I'm laying on the couch with my feet propped up resting for a long run tomorrow. You're stuck with me tonight

Back on topic though...

My eyes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHLLLLLLLL LLLLLLLYYYYYYYYYYSSSSSSSSSSSSAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Anna Nikkole]

Guys can be so effing stupid. Hate to say it. But what is so hard about telling a lady I like DFK, BBBJCIM, MSOG, DATY, DATO...and so forth and inquiring as to which of those SHE enjoys in private? It isn't hard to triangulate if you have a normal IQ/EQ.

I never get upset with acronyms. I think it's the most respectful way to ask. But also reading. Some such as myself have it in my website already. And I don't mind the odd request, to that I can say yes or no.

I do have to correct some of my regular gents. They ask "can I come by for a quick draining". My response is always "I'll give you one more chance before I block you to simply make an appointment".

Guy are horny, I get it. But if the only ground they ever see you on is sucking balls and eating cum then I wouldn't blame them!

[Anna Nikkole]

Why isn't the Provider in question asking this question if it didn't occur with you? IMO if you advertise yourself as a complete slut with no boundaries and you get treated as such; don't complain. You can't be YMMV, you get what you put out. Just like the girls that cry about how a guy "went too far". Well, look at the shit you wrote and advertise. Have some boundaries and self respect.

This occured so long ago, it didn't bother me really. I would just wonder what their inbox and text looked like, and if they are ok with it?

I'm not Downing any woman for her way to earn a living. In society we all look horrible, we are all bottom of the barrel. So it's not for me to judge. It's more an observation. If she is happy, making her dreams come true regardless of what they are, I salute her. I am just older I guess and I don't like to be talked to a certain way for free lol. To me I would already be giving so much away. I would rather save it for the honeymoon and after Ben Franklin(s) have shown up!

[Anna Nikkole]

Thank you. This quote is exactly what I will post when a girl cries about being violated. Great thread!

And I rarely have issues. I've met some wonderful gents. Most are just like hanging out with friends. But imo and in my business, I have boundaries. After we settle the business side of it I'll be what I claim!

I have some sexual post and pictures for sure. Here and there, but maybe I'm just not a sex addict as much as some lol. I still believe there is a time and a place for everything.