Why not?

[Brooke Wilde]

Since I've been around a while, I'm normally able to answer my own questions, but this one still perplexes me ... When texting a lady from OH2; why not PM her first or at the VERY least, include your handle when texting?

I personally like having my number posted for numerous reasons, so I get a good amount of text messages with NO information other then asking if I am available.

I always ignore those messages since my ad says "you must PM before texting".

A good amount of the time after I have ignored the text for a few days, weeks or months, I'll finally receive a PM saying this is ________ from OH2. I texted your from _______.

Why not just say that in your original text?

This board & your handle are here to make connecting & screening easier ... so if you have that information, why not take advantage of it & say who you are from OH2 when texting a provider?

So please gents, when it comes to reaching out to me via text, ALWAYS include your handle.

[Classysexxx]

Hi Beautiful!!

I totally " feel" you.
This is an excellent & very IMPORTANT & USEFUL thread,
To help some of the Gentlemen here understand that is a
Turn off..and can lead to "some" providers feeling alarmed.
Unless they have their number posted in a Mens Restroom
Graffiti with for a good time call "*******"

I can understand if perhaps maybe they are in hurry to schedule or connect but without the provider personally giving you her number and she has already met you
It is more appropriate to private message us.

Then we do not have to either..
A.) Block the number immediately without responding
B.) Respond lol who is this ,while being a bit alarmed or turned off.
C.) Immediately respond wrong #
D.) Take the day off because now we are worried freaking Vice is on our ass..and omg now..my nerves are so fucked that it's time for some vodka.
E.) Play Russian Roulette with safety and respond..
Sure Sexy I'm free today , what time?
And then ask for refs and handle.

Boys Please Private Message A provider First..atleast Me..
Unless we have met.
It's not comfy having to let the "Apps"..know All of our business either.

Common Courtesy Private Message First.

Its similar to someone dropping by with out calling

[Guest 032224-1]

Hi Beautiful!!

I totally " feel" you.
This is an excellent & very IMPORTANT & USEFUL thread,
To help some of the Gentlemen here understand that is a
Turn off..and can lead to "some" providers feeling alarmed.
Unless they have their number posted in a Mens Restroom
Graffiti with for a good time call "*******"

I can understand if perhaps maybe they are in hurry to schedule or connect but without the provider personally giving you her number and she has already met you
It is more appropriate to private message us.

Then we do not have to either..
A.) Block the number immediately without responding
B.) Respond lol who is this ,while being a bit alarmed or turned off.
C.) Immediately respond wrong #
D.) Take the day off because now we are worried freaking Vice is on our ass..and omg now..my nerves are so fucked that it's time for some vodka.
E.) Play Russian Roulette with safety and respond..
Sure Sexy I'm free today , what time?
And then ask for refs and handle.

Boys Please Private Message A provider First..atleast Me..
Unless we have met.
It's not comfy having to let the "Apps"..know All of our business either.

Common Courtesy Private Message First.

Its similar to someone dropping by with out calling

I have the same issues when people text me first. I’m sure that most of us ladies have this issue unfortunately. (And 90% of these texts the person does not let me know who they are) when I specifically say in ALL of my ads to please email or pm me references. At the very least give me an oh2 handle within the initial text.

I usually ignore and/or block numbers I do not know. <—— Which can be avoided if the person just gives me a heads up on who they are. Even better if get a pm or email first with all screening info ;)

[Warpt]

I send a PM on here first with the info she asks for, then send a text, with my username on here, stating I sent a PM.
I feel more comfortable doing it that way, and she knows who is sending what.
I don't want to send a text with a lot of information about me in it.

[dtymh55]

I will send PM, email, and text or phone call when contacting providers.

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Everyone does things differently.
What needs to happen is 1) Ladies post their contact preferences in their profile and 2) Gents actually READ and follow instructions LOL


Myself....I want an actual phone call. A conversation. During that conversation, I'm going to ask which website they found me on. If he says OH2, I ask that he please PM me here to verify his handle.

I'm not a fan of getting texts from random strangers. Words on a screen tell me nothing about the person. (except that they chose to ignore the fact that "Step 1" is to CALL)

Biggest turn OFF is a guy that only sees the pics and phone number and ignores the rest of the ad/profile.

The Gents I am most excited to meet are the ones that obviously did their homework and have enough respect and intelligence to read and follow instructions.

[minxie]

I am glad this was made public knowledge. You should definitely introduce yourself before trying to just stop by. Lol

[BoSox1918]

So I guess starting out with a dick pic is a no-no?

[Megamind]

Please understand ladies when gentlemen reach out to you they are horny. Bad day at work, spouse could be giving them the royal blues, lack of sex for a while, the stress of living and trying to work during the worst year ever in the history of mankind etc. For a male once the state of arousal occurs most other concerns and natural thought processes go out the window. A Male's mind is programmed on having intercourse,so please be understanding if the first dm isn't neat and tidy. You have done your best to arouse him thru your pictures/photo gallery. Now he's aroused please have a little patience with him.

[Carlisle]

@Brooke! I have the same problem and I have it specified to feel free to text me after you’ve PM’d me. But for those that don’t like to read, when I get that text I kindly reply with.... I’m sorry but I don’t have a PM notification alert and my ad specifies to PM me first and then feel free to text me. Then the number gets blocked until further notice.

[Mike_h0nch0]

I only send a PM unless a text is requested in an ad. Call me old fashioned...

[Krystal_RoseBBW]

Please understand ladies when gentlemen reach out to you they are horny. Bad day at work, spouse could be giving them the royal blues, lack of sex for a while, the stress of living and trying to work during the worst year ever in the history of mankind etc. For a male once the state of arousal occurs most other concerns and natural thought processes go out the window. A Male's mind is programmed on having intercourse,so please be understanding if the first dm isn't neat and tidy. You have done your best to arouse him thru your pictures/photo gallery. Now he's aroused please have a little patience with him.

Yes Dear....we do understand that. All of that is what keeps us in business. What we are asking in return is a just a little bit of respect for our TIME as professionals and put a just a little bit of thought into your actions with your larger head.

[tbone2u]

It's called common sense. Few have much of it anymore.